Target of Ex’s Love Magic

[no_muthi_09]

Hello, all. New to the site. Apologies...this is a long one...if anyone takes the time to read it I just want to give a huge thanks in advance.
 

I went to a clairvoyant whom I see regularly back in October. Using tarot, a devil card came up for which they warned me about the possibility of a woman using love magic on me. They said the goal of that love magic would be to stop me from being with anyone else. I found that interesting, since my recent dating efforts had gone nowhere (very unusual for me). I listened to what he said but didn’t worry too much, I thought maybe my recent issues were coincidental and that what he said was maybe just a warning but not a situation I was actually in at present. I don’t want to go into detail, but in the ensuing weeks I saw all my dating efforts just completely stall. Like, there were women I would see a few times, not in a very serious or pressured way but also not totally laissez faire, and then they would just disappear. For this to happen occasionally would be normal, I don’t expect to never be rejected. But to happen every single time suddenly? Something was different. Even as recently as last summer, I was having a lot more success and interest from women.
 

Now, I know the first question is to ask is there something with me that is causing this. Fair question. I don’t think so. If anything, I have gotten in better shape. My health, hygiene areas good as ever (I can attest because I have met and hooked up with women I met before this period before and their interest has not waned in the slightest---this is something affecting people I am newly meeting it seems). Career continues to be solid. I am the same dude, reasonably confident, respectful, knows how to banter, etc. I am pretty sure that I am the same guy who’s had a lot of success in dating before. So in helping to address this, I ask you to please just assume that what I am saying here is the case.

Who might it be? I believe I know who (and I went to two other clairvoyants who corroborated this and even gave me details they couldn’t have known about). I have an ex I broke up with over 3 years ago. We have stayed in touch as friends (which was a terrible idea). She was controlling, pathological cheater, manipulative. Basically a nightmare. I broke things off with her. Anyway, we stayed in touch but never hung out in-person. But recently (late last year) she was being strange. We video chatted a few times and she was a little too “dolled up” and she was selling herself, talking about how much she has changed and matured and yada yada without my asking. It just seemed disingenuous. Then a few times she was inviting me to come and stay with her, “You’re always welcome to stay” and this kind of stuff and vaguely alluding to us being together. 
 

I never took her up on any of it obviously, but knowing her ways and history and what the first clairvoyant had told me I looked into it more. As I said, it was corroborated by two other clairvoyants, one even told me something specific she couldn’t have known (there’s a very particular photo she wanted me to have that helped to reinforce the spellwork). It seems she has been doing stuff for a while, but perhaps had recently stepped up the efforts or strength considerably. I was also told that she is extremely jealous and that when she wants something, she is relentless. It is about ego and power for her. She is delusional, she basically views me as her property and will not take no for an answer. She will stop at nothing.

I tried two rituals, one I did myself (was recommended) and the other with a powerful practitioner who has helped me a lot in the past (also one of the two corroborating clairvoyants). Not only have things not changed, they seem to have worsened. I mean, like I said, dating is going absolutely nowhere, not on any level. It is completely different from normal. A week ago I blocked her on all social media, blocked her phone number, on WhatsApp, LinkedIn, etc.---everywhere. My fear was breaking away was only going to make her more determined and this is probably what has happened.
 

I want to move the hell on and not have to deal with this crap anymore. I want absolutely nothing to do with her, consciously, subconsciously, unconsciously. We are not for each other. I never used black magic or love magic on anyone, so it is extremely frustrating for me. I basically feel like I am in a prison and no matter how hard I try to get on with my life and meet someone, this energy is interfering. I am asking someone to please help give me a solution to break away from this energy so that it is no longer affecting my romantic and dating life, so that my free will and independence are restored.
 

Thank you so much for your patience.
 

[katrinka]

A couple of things to rule out first:

 

1. Correlation does not equal causation. It's possible that you're just going through a dry patch.

 

2. You stated that the practitioner was one of the clairvoyants. If you aren't familiar with candle burning scams, you'd do well to google the term. (Just to be sure that isn't what's happening - I'm NOT saying that's the case.)

 

Now, if you're still absolutely sure that she can throw that kind of magic, it's not something you're going to fix with some little spell you got on the internet. I'd call a pro. Any of the practitioners listed at the bottom of this page would be effective. 
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Category:Jinx_Breaking%2C_Uncrossing%2C_Reversing%2C_and_Road_Opening

 

 

 

Edited March 1, 2021 by katrinka

[no_muthi_09]

7 hours ago, katrinka said:

A couple of things to rule out first:

 

1. Correlation does not equal causation. It's possible that you're just going through a dry patch.

 

2. You stated that the practitioner was one of the clairvoyants. If you aren't familiar with candle burning scams, you'd do well to google the term. (Just to be sure that isn't what's happening - I'm NOT saying that's the case.)

 

Now, if you're still absolutely sure that she can throw that kind of magic, it's not something you're going to fix with some little spell you got on the internet. I'd call a pro. Any of the practitioners listed at the bottom of this page would be effective. 
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Category:Jinx_Breaking%2C_Uncrossing%2C_Reversing%2C_and_Road_Opening

 

 

 

Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I understand your critical thinking with this, I applied the same analysis myself as you might tell from my post. Before drawing conclusions, I always try to look for other explanations or resolutions. Here, that's required self-examination (as I mentioned) and assessing other variables to see what else might be causing this. And I'm not going to divulge data and statistics on my dating history, but I know myself well enough and am honest enough with myself that I can say this is probably not just a dry patch. There's something that's been quite different for 5+ months at this point. a month? Two? Okay. Five and it's getting worse? Again, without you knowing my history it is hard to see. That's why I thought it easier to say please assume what I'm saying is the case.

 

I'm also someone who grew up in a culture rife with black magic (one can argue that's really all cultures, but at least one where it is more conspicuously and widely believed). So I like to think I have a good sense of these things, more or less. Few of us can ever be absolutely sure (your words) about anything related to energy/spell work/etc. because it's not scientific. But when a number of things are going together, we can be reasonably sure. And I think it's a lot more compelling when you have clairvoyants/practitioners giving you specific details and information about the individual/situation that they couldn't have otherwise known. My hunch is that this isn't a coincidence. 

 

About the three practitioners I mentioned, none of them know each other, one of them literally does work only for free, and the other two I already go to two to three times a year for readings (one of them just does readings) and energy work (one of them only does energy work but also is intuitive). I know you don't have all the details, but I am not being scammed.

 

I will check out one of the practitioners in the link you left. Thanks so much again.

[Ncharge]

Have you tried a binding spell?

[cynzi]

Your ex is concentrating her energy heavily on you, and exuding her all her energy and intentions onto you.

 

A solution for this, is to make yourself look discardable and undesirable, so she will make the decision to break away from you, and eventually 

find someone "better" than you (that she will eventually torment as well), and this will hopefully break the concentration she has over you. 

 

Because if you're the best and most valuable thing in her life that she can't control at the moment, she will try to get you back, win you over, to boost her ego. But she would not like to possess or control something that's really crappy, discardable, and just run down.  

 

Also, as a form of magical protection if you're into that sort of thing, is to carry some salt around with you in a pouch, and having some bowls of salt placed around your room is very simple and protective. 

 

Also, saying out loud your intentions or writing your intentions down on paper about what you want in your life can help guide that into your life. A prayer, which many people do, is just simple energy work.