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Author Topic: Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread  (Read 170 times)

Offline libra

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Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread
« on: March 16, 2019, 11:16:11 AM »


 It’s not really a spread, more of a method. But anyway, here it is!

 First off, try to figure your stalker card out. Meditate with it, freewrite based on it, read the LWB, check out how others have interpreted the same card, ask a friend, etc… When you’re sick of all that and you want more depth, then move on to the next step!

Take that bloody irritating card and tell it what you want (I like to sob-scream “But what do you meeeeaaannnn?” at it, personally), then shuffle it back into your deck - FACE UP. Shuffle it in real good. Don’t peek while shuffling, though, you don’t want to see where the card is until you’re totally done with shuffling.


When you’re through with that, flip through the deck and find the card - super easy cause it’s the only backwards card in the deck - and pull it out AND the 2 cards on either side of it.

The card behind your stalker shows underlying issues that caused the card to show up. Then show up again. And again. It’ll give you the knowledge about why, and knowledge is power.

The card in front of your stalker gives you the action to take, what the card needs from you so it can stop trying to deliver it’s message. It’s your first step to freedom!

Where the stalker ended up in the deck before you pulled it and the surrounding cards out also comes into play. If it was near the top of the deck, it is mostly in relation to practical, real-world tangible life. The farther you have to dig to find it, the more likely it is the card is speaking to you on a deeper, spiritual level.


 Hopefully this will help y'all with any stalker card issues you might come across! I’d love to know if this works for you, so feel free to shoot me a message or tag me if you use it!


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Re: Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread
« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2019, 09:19:49 PM »
This is a great exercise, @libra ! (I love the angst-ridden cry in step 2!) The cards on either side are really helpful  - insight into the why the card is showing up and a practical step to take. This exercise is a keeper. :) :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: March 16, 2019, 09:40:10 PM by Starlight »
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Re: Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2019, 06:33:34 AM »
I like this Libra...I'm going to try it right now....that damn Hanged Man ... let's see what we get.
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Re: Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2019, 06:47:11 AM »
Okay...so I did my first stalker card King of Coins...

The card behind is the 2 of swords - reversed, the card ahead is the Sun.

Then I did the Hanged Man, behind is the Ace of swords ahead ... THE KING OF COINS!

WTF?

So, interpretation, here we go.

King of Coins

2 of swords - reversed; duplicity, falsehood, misrepresentation

King of Coins - the person I thought would be my mentor and who is still part of my life

The Sun - Achievement in the arts and success jump out at me

How do I interpret this?  I think it means that he might still be helpful despite the fact that I found him to misrepresent his abilities to mentor me.

Now on to the Hanged man

Ace of Swords - determination, strength, prosperity, success

Hanged Man - holding myself in check to appease others

King of Coins - that damn mentor again

So, if I look at this literally, it means I had some success in my creative endeavours, but because of criticism or lack of support from close family, I pulled back and I'm holding myself back, but it appears that the mentor can be of some use to me.

What say you?
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Re: Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread
« Reply #4 on: March 17, 2019, 10:16:42 AM »
This is a great exercise, @libra ! (I love the angst-ridden cry in step 2!) The cards on either side are really helpful  - insight into the why the card is showing up and a practical step to take. This exercise is a keeper. :) :thumbsup:

Lol the angst-cry is a crucial step, gotta let your cards know you mean business!

I like this Libra...I'm going to try it right now....that damn Hanged Man ... let's see what we get.

I'm glad you are trying it! Did you also take note of where the card was in the pack when you dug it out?  I find that actually has a really big affect on the reading - if it was closer to the top, easy to find right away, your thought that this is about your mentor in particular is probably true.  If you had to dig deeper to get to  the stalkers, then you're gonna have to dig deeper into the meanings too - looking at what your true desire in seeking a mentor was and if the fact that it didn't work out triggered something bigger in you.

I'm feeling like it's the second portion, really getting the feeling that there's a King of Coins shaped hole in you and the duplicity you felt from that mentor struck a chord in a bigger way because he's part of a cycle of learning and healing and growth for you.

Looking, in depth, into what you wanted from him as a mentor could be really helpful. Try to say something you wanted from your mentor, followed by "which means... " or "because..." until you hit something that you viscerally feel. An example, not based on anything or anyone aside from thinking about writing:

"I wanted this mentor show me to express myself clearly and in a funny manner BECAUSE I feel like thats something I struggle with in my writing WHICH MEANS that sometimes I have a fantastic idea but I don't get out out the right way WHICH MEANS that my piece gets overlooked in the competition I submitted it to - oh, that word, overlooked, I felt a tightening in my chest."

From there, check in with the most recent time you felt that way, and dig deep and see if you can't figure out when you first felt that way too. Example: "I most recently felt overlooked at the dinner gathering I went to, when I was telling a funny story and that guy interrupted me and ruined it. It's uncomfortable to remember, but if I sit in the feeling, memories of being a kid and having my parents just grunt answers when told them about my day at school felt like this too... "

Try to consider the King of Coins as a bigger idea than the one disappointing mentor and see how embodying that card yourself could allow you to heal a string of hurts that's potentially been with you for a lot of your life. Your work with the King of Coins isn't gonna follow that hypothetical path I created to there, but the idea stands!

Oh, and read this beautiful interpretation of the Kind of Pents from Shadowscapes, and as you read it, read it as if it's written FOR YOU. It's not about someone else, it's about an energy that is just waiting to come bursting out of you! http://www.shadowscapes.com/image.php?lineid=17&bid=73
« Last Edit: March 17, 2019, 10:19:08 AM by libra »

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Re: Why are you STALKING ME?!!?? Tarot Spread
« Reply #5 on: March 17, 2019, 10:43:16 AM »
Libra...it was in the latter half of the deck...in fact very close to the bottom not the top ... and there is a King of Coins shaped hole in me ... and I wanted a mentor for .... validation ... validation that I have talent and that I am unique ... but I recently got a peer review of my script that did just that ... my big thing is that because I feel overlooked by professionals/competitions, that maybe I don't have talent ... but I'm realizing that isn't true.  I'm about to read that other thread now.
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