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Author Topic: What is my fate?  (Read 236 times)

Offline AceOfaces

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What is my fate?
« on: January 11, 2019, 10:37:11 PM »
I did self enquery with the question: "What is my fate?"
Temperance
King of Swords
King of Wands

Does this mean I will be a blend of these two attributes? I have tough time understanding what it means.
For the record, I have zero confidence and self esteem, a coward in other words. But I am "clever" or intellectually focused if that is anyway related.
« Last Edit: January 11, 2019, 10:53:01 PM by AceOfaces »

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Re: What is my fate?
« Reply #1 on: January 12, 2019, 12:44:59 AM »
Hi, for tarot or anybody to be able to answer, we'd need to know what you mean by 'fate'. Life is pretty long and full of events, plot twists and new stages so what stage exactly is the fate as in an outcome or course of your life? I think the question is far too vague for a clear answer.

It's the same as asking 'how will this relationship go' - well, relationships go up and down in general and there's no set end point or final result, so again, pretty difficult to answer; it's not possible to pin down one drop of water in a flow of water.

If you respond to explain what you mean by fate or what exactly you meant by your question, I'd be happy to help. You talk about self esteem and blending attributes, do you wish to know what kind of person you could be, are 'destined' to be or should become?

I'm personally pretty wary about concepts like fate or destiny because they imply we're helpless drifters in our own life and move towards something predestined without tools to affect it, which I find kind a grim approach.

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Re: What is my fate?
« Reply #2 on: January 12, 2019, 09:54:41 AM »
Hi, @AceOfaces , and welcome to the forum!

You actually have to make five posts on the forum before you can ask for help with a reading, and you also have to try to interpret the cards for yourself first.  Once you make your five posts, and interpret your cards, someone will move your question to Tarot Readings, and then people can help you.

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« Last Edit: January 12, 2019, 09:58:32 AM by Night Shade »
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Offline AceOfaces

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Re: What is my fate?
« Reply #3 on: January 12, 2019, 07:44:50 PM »
Hi, for tarot or anybody to be able to answer, we'd need to know what you mean by 'fate'. Life is pretty long and full of events, plot twists and new stages so what stage exactly is the fate as in an outcome or course of your life? I think the question is far too vague for a clear answer.

It's the same as asking 'how will this relationship go' - well, relationships go up and down in general and there's no set end point or final result, so again, pretty difficult to answer; it's not possible to pin down one drop of water in a flow of water.

If you respond to explain what you mean by fate or what exactly you meant by your question, I'd be happy to help. You talk about self esteem and blending attributes, do you wish to know what kind of person you could be, are 'destined' to be or should become?

I'm personally pretty wary about concepts like fate or destiny because they imply we're helpless drifters in our own life and move towards something predestined without tools to affect it, which I find kind a grim approach.

Thanks for the reply Saskia.
Yes perhaps my enquiry was wrong or poorly worded. I was thinking of what kind of life I will have, but in my mind it was what kind of person I will become or should be.
King of swords probs up a lot in my own readings, swords too. Wands or cups rarely are involved. Maybe by my own interptation it means, I should balance my own mind with physical action, not too much thinking nor too much pure instinctive action, something of both.
Kings are strong cards, so perhaps in future I could form into a respectable gentleman, for now I am quite pathetic with no drive or spine.

 

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