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A generational reading spread

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I recently got told to look back 4 generations into female ancestors on my mother's side (with me being generation 0).

So I came up with the following:

Using ONLY court cards, pull a card for you and for each of the ancestors you want to look into and define who they are. Read them according to characteristics like suits, position in court, details on the card, etc. Look for character insights or a common thread weaving through the generations. I found readings I did this way very illuminating!

(for me those were, for example:

  • 0 - me

  • -1 - my mother

  • -2 - her mother

  • -3 - her grand-mother

  • -4 - my mother's great-grand-mother

I never met any of them beyond my grandmother and I hardly knew her - but I found an interesting cascade of reactions to each of their mothers which are now influencing me - might post the reading itself later)

That's a very interesting spread! I knew my grandmas very well (one is still alive, the other I lost early this year bubble_bcry), but I was never really close to the generations beyond them. I think I may try this! I believe this spread could also be used with 'people-heavy' oracles (as in, oracles that feature a lot of characters/people cards).

Thanks for sharing!

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So sorry for your loss, @Marina . Consider yourself hugged (but only if you want) !

And yes, any deck with lots of (single, unless there are twins?) people will do, we could even filter out people cards from the majors!

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Here is a summary of the reading I did for myself using this spread.

I used the “Zwischen der Zeit” Tarot (“inbetween time”; translated from a rather bulkily named “A Day in the Forest with the Tarot Witch” deck) for my generational reading – me and 4 generations up on my mother's side, all female.

Me – Knight of cups

She sits on a black horse, wears romantic coat with lots of embroideries; holds a big cup from which a white flower grows, pointing towards throat chakra; cup at level of solar plexus. I need to learn to speak for myself. (also very funny because I don't consider myself romantic, but others have pointed out that sometimes I am)

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My mother – Page of wands

Facing away , looking through a doorway into the distance where the sun sets. She had dreams, She took decisions that she may have regretted but felt it was too late to remedy. (She also had a tendency to put others first and put her own dreams aside). She also was very afraid of me growing as large as her mother


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Her Mother, my grandmother – Queen of cups

coming out of the ocean, steaming cup / pot in one hand, fork in the other. She may have eaten her emotions (she was rather large), she also had a lot of love to give but may not have known how.


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My great-grandmother (mom's grandmother) – King of Swords

Sharp mind, strong character, strict ruler, no love to learn from. Any emotions got turned into blame, never got internalised (flower worn on lapel). Possibly spiritually sensitive but rationalising it or thinking she was crazy (being told she was crazy).


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Her mother (great-great-grandmother) – Knight of wands


She may have been the passionate one who did what came into her head, impulsive, spontaneous, not always conforming to social norms.


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Possibly not very reliable, therefore her daughter tried to be the rational one.

Her grand-daughter therefore did not learn how to love and got submerged by emotions she didn't know how to handle and all she learned was serve.

Which she bestowed on my mother who dutifully did what she was taught – not speaking up and handing that to me (and I became exactly as large as my mother feared I would).

After the reading, I spoke with my sister, and she had a tidbit of information - one of these women was absent, I have a feeling it may have been this knight of wands!

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Thanks for sharing your reading. This is interesting. It would be good to include a background of dates for the era each one lives/lived through - the zeitgeist and cultural norms - for context.

For example, my grandmother's father died before she was born in WWI, impacting her mother.

His Irish ancestors likely travelled to England around the time of the potato famine.

Epigenetics or past life material can be revealed through this. I hoard food that sits in the cupboard for years, for example.

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@JoyousGirl thanks four your idea (I hadn't even thought of epigenetics in this context, even though I JUST explained (or tried to) them to someone recently...)

I am just barely a Gen X (narrowly escaped the boomers 😉 . We are all from the same region, not a lot of migration on that end (very different on my dad's side).

My mom was born in 1937, was very young when WW II hit; HER mom was, iirc, around 1918, so around WW I . So both knew food scarcity and insecurities well; also my grandma was quite young when she had my mom, after that, she had at least 10 more children (that survived), so she was always pregnant, nurturing, nursing, for over 20 years of her life (Queen of Cups, alright!) .

Before her, I have no dates - but my grandma's austere mom must have been around during Victorian ages (although our region had nothing to do with Victoria, it must have been the "Zeitgeist" even here).

The furthest one back, I have even fewer ideas, just that it looks like she may have been the adventurous one (and the absent one) branded as insane because not fitting the times....

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*Nancy Hendrickson is the author for ancestral Tarot books (e.g. "Ancestral Tarot, uncover your past and chart your future").

I have 2 of her books sitting on my shelf as yet unread (well...I've begun one).

Great decks for this are:

The Relative Tarot by Carrie Paris (designed for ancestral work, she got permission to use ancestral photos)

Stretch Tarot by Joseph Stretch

The Quiet Rebel Oracle by Lyn Thurman.

These are the 3 that I have - and will use for this purpose at some point (when I can get 2 minutes to read thoroughly through Nancy Hendrickson's book).

Now, I'm off to check out that deck of yours @karma_eleon on youtube...

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