Joy messaged me but I've forgotten how to send a private message.  It's really embarrassing to have to ask but I can't figure it out. I read Joy's message in my email, rather than here, but can't reply to it without coming here.

 

You press the large green button in the top menu that says ‘messages’ (you might have to press it twice) and when you are in your inbox, click on the little green messages button and choose ‘new message’. I added a screenshot of what the small button and the menu looks like.

Joy messaged me but I've forgotten how to send a private message.  It's really embarrassing to have to ask but I can't figure it out. I read Joy's message in my email, rather than here, but can't reply to it without coming here.

Go to Joy's profile and look at the left side panel.  You'll see Send Private Message, click on that and you're good.  Or when you're in your messages, look at her message and then click on the reply in the upper right hand corner of the post window. ;)