What is going on??

[OutoftheAshes]

I've been going through a rough time these last several months but up to tonight I've continued to walk through it as just that, a rough spot.

There have been many odd things happening along with the negativity and bad luck in my home. My husband and myself haven't been the same since we moved in our new home. For some reason though, I've disregarded so much that is odd, but last night really stood out and made me ask myself what is going on?

So this is what happened..

I was totally exhausted mid day again, which is a theme in our new house too.  I go to bed and can't find the remote. Nothing unusual really. I moved every pillow knowing it should be right there and found nothing. I put the pillows all back where they were and right beside me where I would have clearly seen it was the remote. Odd, but this kind of thing happens to me often. My friends call it A-porting and like I mentioned, its something that tends to happen around me. I fell asleep and woke up at 11:30 with hearing the words in a deep mans voice "You should just kill yourself" going in my head!  :o

This scared the bejesus out of me and I got out of bed disturbed and upset questioning what is going on?? I wasn't asleep or dreaming. I had already woke up when I started hearing the voice.

 

I've also noticed that the only time I have insomnia problems lately is if my son, who is living with us, is not home. When he is here, I sleep a lot but he now suffers with the insomnia quite severely. He's also sleeping in one of the upstairs bedrooms that I consistently heard sounds of footsteps coming from since moving in and my daughter has told me there is a dog that still lives here and likes the upstairs bedroom. I asked her if there was anything to be concerned with other than the dog and she said someone is here but she couldn't see who or what it is, just felt the presence and said the house feels odd. I haven't spoke to her about this since due to her gift being something she has her own way of living with. It's not something I push.

My concern here is twofold really. First, is there something or someone impressing these thoughts into my head?? I know I'm going through a lot but to think of such a thing is beyond me! It was just so shocking and so matter of factly expressed.

Also, what is really going on here?  There's energy shifts, mood changes in a blink of an eye, foul language coming out of my mouth that normally is not heard, and I'm also working on some anger that I'm not understanding but is quite relentless.

It looks like my son and I may have found a new place to move but I'm concerned with what is happening and don't want to disregard these signs any longer and its beginning to scare me.

I could go into all the strange occurrences that I've been ignoring but then this would be a short book instead of a forum post! I'm hoping someone that reads this may have a clue to what may be happening or advice to offer? I've been saging myself and my home ALOT due to the negativity and some other forms of protection are in and outside my home. So I'm lost for ideas and it appears to be getting worse. Stronger came to mind.

Any ideas or comments would be greatly appreciated!

 

[Emilija]

Have you consulted with a paranormal investigator's group? Some of these groups have mediums. I would try to seek one out. I think you're doing the right thing by smudging, though.

[Starlight]

I would not ignore what's going on, anyway. It's obviously disturbing you, and tackling whatever it is head on is probably the best thing to do.

 

If you are on friendly terms with the neighbours, perhaps you could ask if they know anything about the history of past owners. It's somewhere to start.

 

Are you renting? If so, would you be open to moving somewhere else?

[EmpyreanKnight]

I think this is quite dangerous, OutoftheAshes, and you should not just choose to ignore it. Here in my country, we usually have a priest bless our house if these things happen. It sometimes fails tho, but it's still an option. Failing that - is there a local seer or mystic who can help you with these troubles? Maybe investigating the history of the house would also be a good idea so that you'd know what you're dealing with, as Starlight suggested

 

From what I've read, most of these hauntings are local - if you leave they would stop bothering you. But a few choose to follow their victims even into their new homes.

[Ephemeridae]

Firstly, I want to let you know that these experiences are fairly common even without hauntings! I'm not trying to shove the spiritual aspect of this under the rug, I think you should address that as well and you've had some good advice so far, but there are other explanations and I think it's worth exploring both options at the same time. :)

 

The voice you heard when you woke up may have been a hypnopompic hallucination, they are common in sleep disorders like insomnia. Give it a google, it's a fascinating subject.

 

How big was this move? Did you move away from your primary emotional support system (friends and family)? What was the cause of the move, were you forced into the move by something out of your control? Moving in itself can be stressful enough, but one or both of the aforementioned situations could be extremely stressful even if you're not consciously aware of the stress. That is certainly enough screw up your sleep patterns and cause the fatigue, lack of concentration (not being able to find something that was in plain sight), and insomnia.

[Raggydoll]

There are clearly (at least) two very different possibilities here, and I would carefully look into them both if I were you. Ephemeridae is right that this could well be a symptom of long term insomnia and stress, and that is something you just can't afford to ignore. On the other hand, you cannot rule out other causes - like those already mentioned in this thread. So that should also be looked in to. Better safe than sorry, so deal with this as soon as possible. Make sure you find professionals that you really trust. I really hope you can get to the bottom of this and make it stop.

[Padma]

I'd be inclined to go with Ephemeridae's take. I've had bad sleep episodes for many years, and they are really taking their toll!

 

But - I have also lived in many bad houses over many years of moving (husband is military) and I have learned to just shield as best I can. The anger is hard to take, though, and can puncture through the shield and come out looking like your own (it's not- unless you are unable to address your own anger issues, in which case, well! It might be :p )

 

what I have learned to do as well is to sage constantly, and to also put selenite, a cleansing crystal, in every room. I have also been known to get shouty with spirits in the house, and tell them to leave! I follow it up with ignoring them entirely, which kind of takes the fun out of things for them ;)

 

Anyways, all that to say you are not alone! If I wrote out half of the weird stuff that has happened to me in different homes, this would be a scary long post! I hope you are able to deal, either by moving, by crystal therapy, by saging, or by cleansing - either ritual or through a person. I know it is hard and it is frightening, so hang in there, there are ways and means to control things! I do think a move, if it is in your cards as you mention, will be very helpful, though. Meanwhile, hang tight! It is your space, your place, and your rules. Make whatever that energy is understand that. :) Getting shirty with it may really help!

 

Hugs!

 

 

[Starlight]

Ephermeridae mentioned hypnogogic hallucinations, and that was another thought I had as well. It is related to insomnia and it can happen - in my experience - when your body is asleep but your mind is awake. If you have any worries or concerns that are waking you up out of your sleep or stopping you from falling asleep, that is one possible explanation for the voice you heard. (It can happen as well if you watch tv in bed.)

 

[OutoftheAshes]

Thank you everyone who has graciously given me food for thought on this.

I also send my apologies for just getting back online to post.

 

What's happened...

 

The very morning I posted, my hubby got up and in a rage and said I needed to get out of HIS house! I was astounded and yes angry at this verbal attack. Either way, I felt it was best to remove myself from the situation and have been staying at my daughters until he is asleep and then coming home to be with the boys. (My two precious dogs) They refused to eat for two days so as of Wednesday I've been doing this routine and so far not crossing paths with the other half.

This morning, I'm in the house sleeping and at 4am I woke up feeling like I was being choked. Scary as heck! I reached for my neck and found that the necklace my husband bought for me had twisted up in the back somehow and was literally cutting into the whole front of my neck! There is a deep red line burned in all the way across my neck.

Hallucinations I have considered...stress and insomnia are definitely an issue. When I spent the first two nights at my daughters I slept better than I have in years!! 10 hours straight and hardly moved.

So, I'm sitting in e house this morning getting ready to leave and I'm in utter shock of what happened with my necklace. I've worn it for over 5 years and never take it off and never ever had something like this happen before.

I truly feel something is going on here and my husband is obviously going into something deep and dark since he's in bed at least 10 or 12 hours every night and doesn't get up at all.

 

My concern is that whatever is going on I can't peg and that in itself is upsetting.

I don't remember who brought up the info on e house but we moved a year ago into a once two story farmhouse built in 1930 by a well known family in town. I've wanted to know its history since we first looked at it and still do.

 

I'm going to get going for the day and everything being so up in the air and chaotic I will keep updates as often as I can. I appreciate the help and input on this!

 

Blessings to everyone!!!

 

[EmpyreanKnight]

If it was only you who were having these extremely negative experiences in your house, I'd think that you personally need some psychological/professional help. But if this happened to you, your husband and your son and this has been going on for months since you moved in, and with all the unexplainable stuff that has happened, it really seems like something supernatural is going on. You also said that all the strange occurences in your house is enough to fill a book. It might be a good idea to consult a reputable expert on these phenomena. Make sure that you don't fall into the hands of charlatans or fraudsters. Do this soon tho, since your husband seems to be slowly going off the deep end.

[OutoftheAshes]

If it was only you who were having these extremely negative experiences in your house, I'd think that you personally need some psychological/professional help. But if this happened to you, your husband and your son and this has been going on for months since you moved in, and with all the unexplainable stuff that has happened, it really seems like something supernatural is going on. You also said that all the strange occurences in your house is enough to fill a book. It might be a good idea to consult a reputable expert on these phenomena. Make sure that you don't fall into the hands of charlatans or fraudsters. Do this soon tho, since your husband seems to be slowly going off the deep end.

I agree with you on the fact that if it was just me having experiences that I should seek professional help, but that definitely is not the case. There may be one person I can speak to that may have some idea of who I could trust to help. I'm going to call her asap.

 

This is all getting to be too much and I'm at a loss of how to prevent its continuing other than what I've been doing.

Thank you for your support. (((hugs)))

[EmpyreanKnight]

Ack, I'd definitely include you in my prayers, OutoftheAshes. Just hold on - at the very least you're doing something now to address the situation. Hugs and blessings to you too! :(

[Mi-Shell]

((((OutoftheAshes!♥))))

I am so sory, to hear of you troubles with this!

Just to rule things out:

I once had clients who had "strange hallucination like experiences", while half sleeping and half awake, that were caused by a leak of earth gasses  :o

another time is was actually a gas leak at the neighbour's house and at night it crept into their bedroom. In that incidence, their dog finally smelled to and woke everyone up just in time.....

 

To however ward off unsavoury Spirits, you could yourself smudge = cleanse the home using a mixture of Sage, Cedar and juniper

or maybe frankincense.....

Speak out loud, that you banish all energies that are present - not just unhelpful or negative ones, because these entities of course do not see themselves an unhelpful or negative.....

Then you can re- invite certain specific named energies - like the ones of your guides/ protectors back in, as wards.......

Good luck!

 

 

 

[EmpyreanKnight]

I once had clients who had "strange hallucination like experiences", while half sleeping and half awake, that were caused by a leak of earth gasses  :o

 

I've read about this too, and no it's not just about the Oracle of Delphi. Hmmm if it's feasible maybe a full toxicological assessment of the house can be conducted. Not just the air - it can also be from the water, the construction material, etc.

 

Just a question tho. Have you tried reading your cards about the problem, OutoftheAshes?

[OutoftheAshes]

Ack, I'd definitely include you in my prayers, OutoftheAshes. Just hold on - at the very least you're doing something now to address the situation. Hugs and blessings to you too! :(

Thank you so much EmpyreanKnight!

[OutoftheAshes]

((((OutoftheAshes!♥))))

I am so sory, to hear of you troubles with this!

Just to rule things out:

I once had clients who had "strange hallucination like experiences", while half sleeping and half awake, that were caused by a leak of earth gasses  :o

another time is was actually a gas leak at the neighbour's house and at night it crept into their bedroom. In that incidence, their dog finally smelled to and woke everyone up just in time.....

How incredibly scary! This is worth checking into as well with it being such an incredible health concern if it could be going on.

Thank you for bringing that to my attention. I never really heard of it.

To however ward off unsavoury Spirits, you could yourself smudge = cleanse the home using a mixture of Sage, Cedar and juniper

or maybe frankincense.....

Speak out loud, that you banish all energies that are present - not just unhelpful or negative ones, because these entities of course do not see themselves an unhelpful or negative.....

Then you can re- invite certain specific named energies - like the ones of your guides/ protectors back in, as wards.......

Good luck!

I'm hearing a big thing I've not done. Actually verbally stating in that way is something that feels odd but I completely understand what you are saying. Taking notes...

 

Thank you!!

[OutoftheAshes]

I'd be inclined to go with Ephemeridae's take. I've had bad sleep episodes for many years, and they are really taking their toll!

 

But - I have also lived in many bad houses over many years of moving (husband is military) and I have learned to just shield as best I can. The anger is hard to take, though, and can puncture through the shield and come out looking like your own (it's not- unless you are unable to address your own anger issues, in which case, well! It might be :p )

 

what I have learned to do as well is to sage constantly, and to also put selenite, a cleansing crystal, in every room. I have also been known to get shouty with spirits in the house, and tell them to leave! I follow it up with ignoring them entirely, which kind of takes the fun out of things for them ;)

 

Anyways, all that to say you are not alone! If I wrote out half of the weird stuff that has happened to me in different homes, this would be a scary long post! I hope you are able to deal, either by moving, by crystal therapy, by saging, or by cleansing - either ritual or through a person. I know it is hard and it is frightening, so hang in there, there are ways and means to control things! I do think a move, if it is in your cards as you mention, will be very helpful, though. Meanwhile, hang tight! It is your space, your place, and your rules. Make whatever that energy is understand that. :) Getting shirty with it may really help!

 

Hugs!

I'm starting to think there's a combination of things going on.

Yes, I've had insomnia for years. It comes and goes. And considering going so long with a good nights sleep being 6 hours tops, it can easily be starting to really wear on me causing added stress and muddy thinking.

The anger in the house is very strong. Either one of us could easily be edgy at any moment and there have been several times I couldn't understand why I would say things or react so angrily and the same for my spouses behavior. The depression and anxiety as well has been running through each one of us. The hubby, my son and now more recently, myself included and you can cut the tension with a knife.

Mentioning Selenite.. I was drawn to give my grandson my Selenite sphere since he has been in the house a lot as well and he appears to be alright but he said very clearly that my house creeps him out and he is never comfortable alone in any room.

 

It looks like moving is my decision since my spouse and I last talked. We agree that there's just too much indifference and lack of concern whether we work this out or not. I'm drained of every desire to try anymore and he doesn't have the time for it he says. Truly disheartening but very possibly the best thing for us both to be real with each other.

 

Thank you Padma, for sharing your thoughts and experiences with insomnia as well as experiences with sharing your home with unwanted guests.

It definitely makes me feel less alone in this rough time.

 

[OutoftheAshes]

I once had clients who had "strange hallucination like experiences", while half sleeping and half awake, that were caused by a leak of earth gasses  :o

 

I've read about this too, and no it's not just about the Oracle of Delphi. Hmmm if it's feasible maybe a full toxicological assessment of the house can be conducted. Not just the air - it can also be from the water, the construction material, etc.

 

Just a question tho. Have you tried reading your cards about the problem, OutoftheAshes?

I did try a reading when I wasn't at home. I've got to say though, I found that I was left a little baffled by the cards.

Maybe it was the spread choice, my tiredness or something else but it just felt like the messages weren't clear.

 

[Guest]

Really does Sound like gas or co2 poisoning. Perhaps radon.  Co2 will leak from the furnace in the heat exchanger.

 

 

 

Do you get headaches. Frustrated easily. Hungry and nauseous at the same time. Just dumb, like oh I am wearing glasses...

 

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[OutoftheAshes]

Do you get headaches. Frustrated easily. Hungry and nauseous at the same time. Just dumb, like oh I am wearing glasses...

 

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I suffer from migraines but that's been many many years now.

Nauseous and hungry at the same time...All The Time!

Its gut wrenching keel over holding your guts nausea and yet it feels like I haven't ate all day.

Frustrated is putting it mildly. Some being caused by the fact that I can't seem to multitask at all and yeah..because I can't seem to keep all the information straight like I usually could.

Are these signs of leaking gases?

[Guest]

Off the top of my head I found those to be the most annoying effects, yeah, but I bet website for co2 detectors will have a better list for you.

 

this is what happens;

 

hemoglobin in your blood takes oxygen all around, nothing new here  ;) , but co2 links with the oxygen receptors more readily than the oxygen does. So a homeowner fires up their furnace and it has pinhole leaks in the heat exchanger, weeping co2 into the house. These leaks are caused by rust btw. over time (and this is the scary part) over weeks and months, depending on how much time you spend in the house, the co2 uses up all the oxygen receptors and you are dead.

 

So imagine how you feel if you are suffering all those effects of drowning stretched out over a year or more.

 

I have been installing HVAC for six years now and I have had a couple close calls so bad, I can taste co2 in the air when I step in a house. The homeowners are this funny kind of crazy. They will look all over for a thermostat that has been there for twenty years. lose their checkbook, forget to write the check, then forget to sign it.

 

i have had also had some pretty paranormal stuff happen around the house, when that happens everyone reacted to the circumstances differently, not the same

[Starlight]

This may or may not be of any help, OutoftheAshes[/member], but I thought of you when I came across this resource.

 

It's 'Heal Your House' by Adrian Incledon-Webber who also does consultations for people all over the world. His website is https://www.dowsingspirits.co.uk/

 

I've only just come across him today, but the sample of his book on Amazon.com that I read was really good and explained geopathic stress so well.

 

Just another resource should you ever need it.

[OutoftheAshes]

Some updates:

I have been staying with my daughter and have been sleeping much better and no issues here but...

 

I did sleep two nights at the house. One time was just a rough night in general and the second time I profusely sweat all night and had one nightmare after the other. I awoke moody and depressed and couldn't wait to leave.

My husband said he has been getting stabbing pains in his shoulder and calves for days now while he tries to rest which is something new to him but I have had the stabbing in the calf muscle this last year that would wake me out of a sleep. Like a hot poker stick being stabbed in to my calf. My husband described it the same.

My grandson hesitantly went into more details on what creeps him out in the house too. He said that he hears someone speaking down in the basement saying "I'm done" but the voice he couldn't describe as male or female..just scary he said. The other part was scary for me to hear but relieved he could share.

He said that he sees a "body bag" sitting on top of the oldest section of the basement where the old root cellar area is. He described it in such detail that if I didn't know better I would expect to see it there but I know there is nothing as he described sitting there but the basket of corn that I do have in that area. My grandson is more than happy to not be going to the house lately too.

The days have been so busy but I'm very concerned about my husband and my dogs who are still there.

 

I'm still working on convincing my husband to have the CO2 looked at but he's stubborn and not convinced it's a possibility.

 

Thank you so much to everyone lending helpful info and thoughts.

[EmpyreanKnight]

Let's pray that this gets resolved quick and that it does not intensify, OutoffheAshes. :-\