What spread would you do to reveal blockers preventing something from happening?

[Guest]

I'm looking for a spread that will help answer a question that may not be super specific... or maybe even also a spread to help me narrow down the question!

 

For context, back in Feb 2017 I saw a psychic (let's call her A) who read my cards and said I'd be in a relationship with the right person in about 6 months. She described him in terms of a couple of key features. At the end of 2016 a different psychic said I'd be in a relationship 'by August' next year but provided no details. This was just a single line answer via email. Another, in the June 2017, said 'within 3 months' but no specific details. Again, it was just a quick online single topic answer. I know time can be fluid, but given these all lined up time wise to around August 2017, but with different descriptions, I assumed they were probably on the right track. But nothing came to fruition.

 

Early last year A told me that this partner was was coming 'this year' (meaning 2021). I did meet someone mid last year, and even forgetting what A had said, I thought he may have been 'the one'. But apparently not, going by where it's at now and what the cards have shown. This year, a different tarot reader my friend recommended told me she saw this partner coming this year, and described exactly the same traits A had previously described, and most recently I had a reading with someone who did a reading for me about 15 years ago and was spot on, so I tracked him down through a friend. Anyway, he seemed to describe the same person in terms of personality, values, the type of relationship( but without mentioning physical traits the other two did). 

 

I believe they are all referring to the same person, and what they have described is absolutely the type of partner I want. Now, obviously this future partner has been showing up in my cards for a while (5.5 years!) but not showing up in my life. So, I'm wanting answers lol. Is there something I'm doing that's preventing that partner/relationship from materialising or causing delays, is there something I need to do differently to put myself on the path for that to happen etc? I'm 35 and not getting any younger here, my patience is shrinking lol. If it's something I'm doing I want to know so that I can address it 🙂

Edited May 16, 2022 by Kliz
I'm brand new and learning, so I need a spread that's as simple as possible please.

[Raggydoll]

I’d do something fairly simple. First I would pull some cards, perhaps three, that represent you in regards to this situation. Then I would pull the same amount of cards that represent the other person, in regards to the situation. I’d place the cards on opposite ends of the reading area. And then in the middle I’d ask to be told what (if anything) is going on between you. I would place those cards in a line, sort of as a bridge between you two. Then I might add a few more cards underneath them to ask for advice on what (if anything) you can do to help the situation. 
 

So something like this:

 

You           The situation         Them

123                  7 8 9                 456

 

                  Advice

                  10 11 12

 

You would have to be specific when you ask the question and describe the other person so that it’s clear who you’re referring to. Some assumptions will have to be made here, like that there is a single special someone that you’re meant to be with (as opposed to there being multiple people that you may be meant to fall in love with during the course of your life). But I think it’s okay to make such an assumption if that’s what you’re wanting to know 🙂

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Raggydoll said:

I’d do something fairly simple. First I would pull some cards, perhaps three, that represent you in regards to this situation. Then I would pull the same amount of cards that represent the other person, in regards to the situation. I’d place the cards on opposite ends of the reading area. And then in the middle I’d ask to be told what (if anything) is going on between you. I would place those cards in a line, sort of as a bridge between you two. Then I might add a few more cards underneath them to ask for advice on what (if anything) you can do to help the situation. 
 

So something like this:

 

You           The situation         Them

123                  7 8 9                 456

 

                  Advice

                  10 11 12

 

You would have to be specific when you ask the question and describe the other person so that it’s clear who you’re referring to. Some assumptions will have to be made here, like that there is a single special someone that you’re meant to be with (as opposed to there being multiple people that you may be meant to fall in love with during the course of your life). But I think it’s okay to make such an assumption if that’s what you’re wanting to know 🙂

 

Thanks. I like that spread. In terms of the assumptions, I believe there is only one person who is "the one" (doesn't mean you can't fall in love with other people as part of the journey), so I'm ok making assumptions here 🙂