Significator - is the Lady her or me

[Celine]

Hello,

 

I cannot untangle this for myself.

I did a 3x3 asking what my (female) boss had taken away from our discussion. The cards are astonishingly precise...except I keep being confused by the following: the Lady fell, but also the Bear. And suddenly I simply can't decide, can Lady still be me? I keep thinking no, because I am asking about what she does with our discussion, and so I read her as Lady - on the other hand as it was a discussion with me (and pretty heated too), it may seem natural I would be part of the picture.

 

But I think she is the main actor of that reading, and therefore since Lady fell, it is her. Yes, I'm going circles, and my Lenormand book is packed in a box to be moved soon.

 

Thanks for any insights you may have. ( I find that Lady is "either you or the querent" unhelpful as I am making the query, but she is the main character)

[Mister]

This is one for @timtoldrum, isn't it?

However, it'd be boring to just wait if he picks it up or not.

 

5 hours ago, Celine said:

But I think she is the main actor of that reading, and therefore since Lady fell, it is her.

You did the read already and it made sense.

You asked about Her, after all, not what the consequences would be for You.

 

For the reason that the cards do indeed conform to their user ('s ideas) to a degree my suggestion is to look at what's around both cards in search of descriptive qualities, chances are there is something to distinguish you both.