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Justice in Romantic Interest Readings. Your thoughts? Nuances?

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For me, Justice card most often appears if there are legal matters at hand.

In certain combinations--it's a divorce [legal proceeding] or absent actual legal proceedings--it certainly shows the possibility of a breakup.

But in some romantic readings it's mysterious to me.

Does the person have any legal proceedings going on? No.

It is especially perplexing to me in a "romantic interest" reading. There's not a committed relationship to have a breakup.
No assets to divide or child/pet custody to sort out. No question about who keeps the apartment and who moves.

The imagery of Sword and Scale don't suggest romantic togetherness to me. But beyond that-- ???

How do YOU read Justice card in "romantic interest" readings? [i.e. there is a romantic interest but it hasn't progressed to the relationship stage].

thank you!

Edited by Misterei

This topic makes me think of Stella Kaoruko, the creator of Stella’s tarot. She’s a very traditional fortune teller and offers love-themed interpretations for all the cards. I thought you might enjoy hearing some of her thoughts on the Justice card.

She basically says that it is a fairly bad sign for love; the romantic life becomes sluggish (stable but unexciting, low performance), and a cold attitude might alienate others. There might be a need to make a decision regarding the relationship and it could end negatively. A break up or divorce is possible. For those looking for love, it might be hard to find motivation to go on dates and they might struggle to feel content in a relationship. She also mentions the risk of a miscarriage, but it’s unclear how that fits together with the card, other than it’s generally unlucky.

I agree with a lot of what she says. If it’s a new relationship/date stage, I would view this card as a not-great sign. There is judgment and lack of vulnerability and warmth. (Kind of like an awkward speed dating session or a blind date…). It might be a match that looks good on the paper but that is really unexciting in real life. Definitely not a hot date with a happy ending 😁

Nice topic. As you both mentioned, Justice is not a warm/hot card (unless it's about bdsm with female dominant), but it definitely makes me think of getting into a romantic relationship for other reasons (whether that motivation is known to the other party or not). Wanting financial security or to move to another country, being able to navigate the bureaucracy of adopting more easily, a "shotgun wedding". Many years ago, I knew couples who married because they found a same sex relationship untenable for their career goals, their family, or desire to have children, etc. A terrible situation for them to be put in (and yet they were good friends and are still married today).

If instead it's about the passionate side for both parties, it could be a partner who would want a civil ceremony, not a church wedding. Or want a 'prenup'.

If it's just a 'will they ask me out' kind of thing, it's not a good sign. Since we make a deck provide cards for the question even if the love-interest being asked about has zero interest in our sitter, it has to say something. So for me a card out of left field for the topic is often a simple no. Especially if there are no romantic cards pulled. --Or if it's surrounded by romantic cards, it could be a separate upcoming issue that will have an impact on the question asked.

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The Justice card usually makes me think of the word "consequences." Like someone getting their comeuppance. Regarding a potential romance, it could indicate a warning to "be careful what you wish for." I might see it as some kind of situation that will bite you in the butt later, perhaps due to overlooking red flags, such as an abusive or criminal element, dishonesty, or perhaps some cheating going on. But it could also mean that a relationship with this person will be lackluster and boring. Either way, the querent might be setting themselves up for something they'll regret later, and whatever that is will depend on other cards in the spread and/or the energy surrounding the situation. This card calls for letting logic and reason be the guide, rather than allowing emotions and hormones to take over.

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Hi, @Misterei

Your question sent me to my book (the one where I've written all the permutations of a card that I can think of.) I see quite a number of ways that the Justice card could be interpreted in terms of beginning a relationship that does not involve legal dealings.

In general, Justice means a careful weighing of the matter. There is the suggestion of impartiality and objectivity being a good idea. When upright, the card usually indicates the end decision will be fair. Folks will get what they deserve. (Reversed may indicate unfairness or a lack of objectivity.)

I would say, when it comes to budding romance, the Justice card (upright) would suggest carefully weighing what appears to be on offer. Be impartial and objective about the romantic partner's characteristics, and what they say or do. Stepping back a bit to have a think is probably a good idea, before making a decision. Try to avoid prejudice or bias. Don't be taken in by immediate emotional reactions either. The process of thorough investigation may take a bit of time, but don't feel pressured or rushed.

Cool head (not like usual romances where people generally lose their head) - Justice is "all head" because the sword is there being discriminating, analysing, assessing - cutting things open to see what's inside and what a thing is made of). And following that approach to relationship there's not passion or focus on what the heart wants but

Weighing up the facts - what is being weighed in the scales? Suitability, longevity - looking forward to a point where you're looking back to see the results, practicalities/materiality.

How many divorces have occurred because people were caught up in lust and passion, sexual attraction, completely oblivious to where all of that would lead - no looking forward to the point where you're looking back on the realities? Totally unsuitable - never even talked about practicalities etc.

In my view, Justice in romantic readings shows a relationship that is mind-oriented, not body/passion-oriented. There is a general lack of excitement and/or of sexual/physical attraction, but there might be a lot in common from an intellectual point of view. And, of course, it can point to legal aspects of a relationship, such as legal marriage or divorce, though it depends on the context.

I remember seeing in a reading in which the querent was getting infatuated with someone and, although they found the querent intellectually interesting, in terms of attraction there was nothing, zip. But because the intellectual connection existed, the querent was kind of misreading the situation.


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23 hours ago, Marina said:

... I remember seeing in a reading in which the querent was getting infatuated with someone and, although they found the querent intellectually interesting, in terms of attraction there was nothing, zip. But because the intellectual connection existed, the querent was kind of misreading the situation.

Interesting. I wouldn't have got that from Justice card and yet it hits.

Another, very important, aspect of justice is impartiality. Hence the blindfold in most depictions. So, for a love/romance question, while this card could mean there is more of an intellectual rather than emotional attraction, it might also mean no attraction at all (depending on what the question is or how it is worded). Impartiality = no preference.

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It's official. After getting Justice card YET AGAIN in an "ambiguous romantic connection" spread--it definitely means not interested in that way. This one the client liked a work friend. Wanted to know if it could be more. Justice card front and center. No legal issues, not lawyers. I had other cards confirm it meant the work friend wasn't interested romantically.

@geoxena comment vis a vis impartial = not partial to you [I'm paraphrasing] but that described this read. On the flip side it can also show UNequal. Person A feels romantic interest but Person B does not. They are NOT equal.

In any case, it's funny how a card might change and evolve in one's readings. For most of my career Justice was pretty much always a legal card. Lawsuits, divorces, layoffs, probate. Only recently has it started appearing in ambiguous romance questions.

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