SiSenor Posted August 24, 2020 Posted August 24, 2020 Good evening everyone. Im new here and not sure I’m in the right section so if i am please someone move it to correct place thank you. As i just said I’m very new to Tarot and to be honest I have no idea about Tarot or never heard about it until I met my recent partner and from what she has told me I’m not sure I wanted too. Basically my partner gets readings from a Lithuanian lady on the phone and has used her for years but I have never heard the conversation or ever heard what she asks. But she has told me things this lady has said about me like I like my comfort, I like a gamble, when I get something I move on quickly which is all pretty true so it’s very accurate. But what is worrying me the most is this lady told her that I should make sure I have insurance because of a car accident what is gonna happen when I’m driving on my own. I don’t even drive at the moment but I have a 8 month year old baby and I really plan on driving before she starts school etc and now this has scared the hell out of me and now I’m not sure if I should drive and avoid it all together. And also another thing this lady told her was in 2023 we will have holiday booked and we should cancel it because something is gonna happen to me and that my partner will dream something and she should listen to her dream or something like this. So not only am I worried about driving I’m worrying about going on holiday with my family. Im not sure how good this lady is and how long she has been doing Tarot for but should I be worried or should I still continue life like normal. Thank you in advance for any responses.
Raggydoll Posted August 24, 2020 Posted August 24, 2020 I am so sorry, this sounds like such a stressful and unfortunate situation to be in. First of, have you and your partner talked about how this makes you feel? Because I think its important that your partner sees this from your point of view. And I think there needs to be some boundaries laid down. Your partner is entitled to consult anyone about what is going on in her life, but she is not entitled to get readings on your behalf if you do not consent. I don't feel like commenting in regards to that particular tarot reader and her style of reading as we don't really know much about it. But regarding the car accident thing - if we assume that what she said is actually accurate (which of course we can't know, but for the sake of argument and due to the stress you are feeling, lets pretend like it is), then she has already stated that you will be on your own and that getting a car insurance is what will fix the situation. So this to me implies that no child will be present and no bodily harm will be done. It sounds more like a bump in the metal or something. And regarding the vacation, she stated that your partner will have a gut instinct to cancel the trip, which will prevent an accident. Again, no actual accidents predicted. Is your partner pursuing those readings because she feels nourished by it or because she is scared that she will not be forewarned if she stops? (No need to speculate, I suggest you ask her!). If that is the case then she might have gotten herself in an unhealthy situation. Some people get addicted to readings, especially if their tarot reader reinforces or meets their unhealthy behavior. I am not saying that is the case here, I am just telling you that these things happen and I think communication between you and your partner is the first step.
stephanelli Posted August 25, 2020 Posted August 25, 2020 On 8/24/2020 at 2:19 AM, SiSenor said: Good evening everyone. Im new here and not sure I’m in the right section so if i am please someone move it to correct place thank you. As i just said I’m very new to Tarot and to be honest I have no idea about Tarot or never heard about it until I met my recent partner and from what she has told me I’m not sure I wanted too. Basically my partner gets readings from a Lithuanian lady on the phone and has used her for years but I have never heard the conversation or ever heard what she asks. But she has told me things this lady has said about me like I like my comfort, I like a gamble, when I get something I move on quickly which is all pretty true so it’s very accurate. But what is worrying me the most is this lady told her that I should make sure I have insurance because of a car accident what is gonna happen when I’m driving on my own. I don’t even drive at the moment but I have a 8 month year old baby and I really plan on driving before she starts school etc and now this has scared the hell out of me and now I’m not sure if I should drive and avoid it all together. And also another thing this lady told her was in 2023 we will have holiday booked and we should cancel it because something is gonna happen to me and that my partner will dream something and she should listen to her dream or something like this. So not only am I worried about driving I’m worrying about going on holiday with my family. Im not sure how good this lady is and how long she has been doing Tarot for but should I be worried or should I still continue life like normal. Thank you in advance for any responses. This sounds very stressful ☹️ I agree with everything that Raggydoll has said but I wanted to add that the future predicted by the cards is not set in stone. It shows where you are going if the energies/situations surrounding you stay the same. I.e. if you don't get insurance or cancel the holiday. (On that note, 2023 is a long way ahead). There are also some things that I will not ask the cards about because I don't want to know the answer. I rarely ask about the future because otherwise I worry about what will happen. I understand that tarot can make people feel uncomfortable, I'm not sure what she's told you or what you believe about how they work, but they aren't inherently bad. They are just pictures on pieces of cardboard. If you're not comfortable, then tell your partner this, and ask her not to do readings on your behalf. I think communication is key. My husband doesn't want tarot readings done about him without him asking for one first and I respect his wishes. It's all about having a healthy balance and knowing what makes you feel comfortable.
gregory Posted August 25, 2020 Posted August 25, 2020 I agree with raggy and steph - but also - a word of caution. You have never heard the conversations on the phone. Is it possible that your partner is simply telling you things that worry her in general and is saying the woman told her because that seems to her the best way to make you listen and to do what she wants ? Which is manipulation. Not a nice thought - but a possibility. Regardless, I won't read on people who aren't directly involve as - quite apart from the fact that I think it's wrong to do so without their consent (others here differ big time, I admit), I think it sets up a block. IF this woman really is saying tings about you - as you are't involved, and your energy may not be open to her at all, what she is picking up (if she isn't just making it up because your partner asked about you) may have nothing to do with you at all. Tell her to stop asking about you. It's none of her business to get readings about someone else - even her partner. (But having car insurance is only common sense; also everywhere I know of, it's the law !)
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