Intense connection to somebody's teenager years and his first love - What is the real purpose of this?

[Guest]

Hi,

 

I posted a topic in dream interpretation and I talked about that too. So if  that sounds familiar, this is the reason why. 😉 I'm gonna try to explain in detail and as best I can because I tend to miss some details. I also hope I can post the topic here.

 

In 2018, for two months, I sent a few comments to somebody about his artwork as well as various talking which were posted on his social media page. That person never replied to my comments and I don't know him in the real life. I was just interested in what he used to post. When I sent them on his page, I started to sense a period of his life when he was a teen and then a relationship he had in his teenager years.   It's the first time that happen to me and so I consulted a psychic in order to know more about that.

I learned I have cords of attachement with that person and that happened when I sent these comments. In short, my energy joined his. I also learned I had a past life  with him. The reason why I have those cords of attachment. According to the psychic, my connection with him is intense in the 5D and the reason why I get some information about this period of his life (Teenager years and that relationship he had) Thanks to that psychic, I did search   about him and I found out some information very helpful. I was able to know a little bit about that relationship. 

When I learned the identity of his first love, then I searched her on social media and I found her. So I thought to contact her in order to talk  about all that but  I didn't feel good about to take action in that. Today, I wonder what is the real  purpose of this. I need answers. What do you think about that?

 

Thanks.

[Guest]

Hi @kily,

I am guessing this was quite the experience for you, seeing the effort you went through.

In order to stay sane, I would tend to simply see this experience as a sort of wake-up call, if you may. Learning of attachments often happens when they are needed to let go of in order to proceed. Simple meditation (i.e. focusing your awareness on the process of breathing like it naturally occurs to gradually become aware of yourself beyond the limitations of that noisy "Me, me, me!" in the head) does a great job in that regard.

Having met a bunch of people who became infatuated with this sort of stuff, to a degree that it messed up their life real bad in various ways, I tend to advice on taking such happenings as far less extraordinary than they feel/felt. That stance has shown itself as helpful, for if you continue down the road, it becomes a bit of "Oh, anotherone, nice to meet you."

Of course, "closing the door to 5D" is also an option. It is up to you how to proceed.

11 hours ago, kily said:

So I thought to contact her in order to talk  about all that but  I didn't feel good about to take action in that.

Bless you. Worst case, you could be sued for stalking.

[Decan]

I agree with Treppatey, exhale deeply and let go about this sort of subtle attachments. Spirituality (the section you posted) is about that, most often, at least from my point of view.

[katrinka]

14 hours ago, kily said:

Thanks to that psychic, I did search   about him and I found out some information very helpful. I was able to know a little bit about that relationship. 

When I learned the identity of his first love, then I searched her on social media and I found her. So I thought to contact her in order to talk  about all that but  I didn't feel good about to take action in that.

 

Put yourself in the place of either of those people.
If I found out somebody was doing web searches on me based on something a psychic told them, I'd consider them a wack job. Sorry, but it is what it is.

There are two possibilities here: either the psychic was legit, or they weren't. If they weren't, they were just feeding you what they thought you wanted to hear.
If they were, and cords of attachment do indeed exist, consider that you may have had innumerable past lives and known innumerable people, and so potentially have thousands - or possibly millions - of "cords of attachment." A single cord isn't very important.

Past is past for a reason. You're obsessing on someone who has already demonstrated that they don't want to talk to you, to the point of paying a psychic to find out more information.

What's wrong with this picture?

Let. It. Go.

[gregory]

I'm with everyone here. It sounds like stalking because - basically it IS stalking. Also - loads of dreams are sort of wish-fulfilment stuff. And far too many psychics play on that.

 

Move on into real life. if this person wanted to know you, or for you to know anything about them, they would have responded to your posts. Leave them be - along with all those you believe are connected to them.

[Raggydoll]

I have had several psychic experiences where I caught glimpses of something after coming in contact with a person. A couple of times I have seen events from a persons past after talking to them briefly online. I typically never do anything about it, and I do my best to respect everyone´s privacy by not taking it any further. They didn't invite me to see something, and I personally wouldn't be okay with trying to find out more. If you see something by accident then that is one thing, but I think it is a whole other thing to actually perform readings about it or look up information. That would cross a line that I personally wouldn't want to cross. Also, these things (psychic flashes) happen to me from time to time, and I really couldn't keep my sanity if I tried to hold on to it. If there is a message to be interpreted, I try to do that and then let it go. Otherwise I let it go straight away. Like @katrinka said, it is possible that there is a past life connection but you don't even know if it is a positive one. If a person believes in past lives, then they will also have to recognize that every individual will have had countless of past lives, and in every life they will have met numerous people. Most of those relationships would have been complicated. 

 

So yes, I am with the others here. I would try to let it go if I were you. I would also consider looking into your psychic abilities and how you can start controlling them. I think anyone with such abilities needs firm boundaries so it doesn't consume you. I know that I absolutely needed to develop that when my own gifts were getting stronger. I started seeing spirits more and more and I had psychic inputs at times where it was not at all practical. And I felt like my mind was constantly scattered and drained. So I took the time to develop a consistent practice where I allow my abilities to come forth. That took the pressure away and it stopped being as random as before. I feel like I can shut it off to a large degree these days. I can´t really advice you on what resources or methods that would work for you, but perhaps just start looking into it. See if you can find some books or talk to an experienced psychic. 

 

I wish you the best of luck

[Guest]

Hello all,

 

 Thanks for your advice.