Married with another soul connection?

[Moonlight-begonia]

Hi everyone

 

I am happy to give further detail in the comments, but I am a very intuitive person and I am married to someone I knew I would marry the day I met. Spirit told me when and how we would get together, even before I knew him (and thus it was beyond logic or reason). I had dreams about it, synchronicities, numbers lining up, and many connections. 
 

We have now been married 10 years, with children, and are happy. But over the past couple of months it has become evident that I have fallen in love with someone else - my PhD supervisor to be exact. Ive never had chemistry with anyone like this, and I’ve never even met him in person, only over Zoom meetings, but we seem to be drawn to one another. We are opposites in some ways but very similar in others. I don’t know if he’s spiritual because he’s very guarded and cautious whilst I’m his student. But it seems he has feelings for me too - and my intuition keeps on telling me what will happen with him before it does. Once more, I’ve had many dreams about his feelings and us, along with synchronicities, particularly numbers lining up. He’s triggered a spiritual awakening in me. I can’t connect with my husband anymore because I feel my heart belongs to my supervisor, which makes no sense but I feel it’s a spiritual pull, and even that I’ve seen we will be married in the future. 
 

I am having space from him currently to embrace my spiritual transformation, but I feel tarot has confirmed this - I see a future with him, and I don’t understand it! 
 

Has anyone got a similar story of being married and Spirit leading you to someone else?!

 

 

[BrightEye]

I would be reluctant to give this a spiritual interpretation. Attraction happens. It's part of being human. It'll pass. As your PhD supervisor, this person is your teacher, so you look up to him, which is only natural. There is something attractive in someone who has knowledge and can impart that knowledge, especially when you are a student who is eager to learn. I've been there myself.

 

Fast-forward to today: I'm a university lecturer now and can tell you that even if your supervisor were attracted to you, he would not act on it - at least not if he had any self-respect or respect for you. You are dependent on him for your degree. It would never be an equal relationship. It would, in fact, be exploitative.

 

I think part of our spiritual development involves dealing with change in our relationships if we want them to last. Perhaps you need to work on reconnecting with your husband, or connecting with him differently.

[Misterei]

On 11/18/2023 at 7:35 AM, Moonlight-begonia said:

Has anyone got a similar story of being married and Spirit leading you to someone else?!

Not exactly.

I have been in love 3 times resulting in 3 long-term relationships. Every time there were dreams and omens.

I experienced an attraction at work which we never acted upon. There were dreams and intense feelings but no omens.

I once felt in love with my partner's brother. But NEVER acted on it.

 

Just b/c you feel yourself in love with someone ... do you actually need to ACT on the feeling? Or can you enjoy it on a dream level as I did with my work attraction? Do things need to manifest on the material plane?

 

This is *me* --not tarot-- but with a husband and younger children ... your life isn't your own. It belongs to your husband and kids until they're 18 or whatever. I know this sounds harsh and judgemental .... but I think modern people have gotten too selfish. Unlss the family is already broken by abuse ... why would you want the karma of breaking it?

 

Spirit leads us into EVERYTHING.

Not just romantic partners.

With my first love ... I had love at first sight age 15. I never saw him again until 2 years later when I was 17.

Things that are "meant to be" will happen in their own sweet time. Sometimes years in the future in ways we can't fathom in the present.

[Eugenie]

I have a story of being married, tired of routine, bored and connecting with my doctor. I kept dreaming of him, I was in love, I was certain something amazing will come out of it and I am sure there was amazing synchronicity happening and probably even omens. Well, what came out was disappointment and feeling very much non-pleased with myself. I think infatuation happens but doesn't necessarily mean we need to act. For me, it is better to see it as a movie, some entertainment. I have reconnected with my husband and consider this an excellent decision. 

[Guest]

Hey there, I’m glad other people in this forum have shared alternatives to what you’re going through and dealing with. 
 

My only interpretation is that there’s something else that’s wanting to ruin what you have going for you currently. You have what many people desire, a seemingly happy marriage and children. How do you know that this feeling of infatuation is perhaps not an attack on your stability and happiness in life? This will subside and having space from him should do you good. Hopefully, absence doesn’t make your heart grow fonder in this case.