Significator - is the Lady her or me

[Celine]

Hello,

 

I cannot untangle this for myself.

I did a 3x3 asking what my (female) boss had taken away from our discussion. The cards are astonishingly precise...except I keep being confused by the following: the Lady fell, but also the Bear. And suddenly I simply can't decide, can Lady still be me? I keep thinking no, because I am asking about what she does with our discussion, and so I read her as Lady - on the other hand as it was a discussion with me (and pretty heated too), it may seem natural I would be part of the picture.

 

But I think she is the main actor of that reading, and therefore since Lady fell, it is her. Yes, I'm going circles, and my Lenormand book is packed in a box to be moved soon.

 

Thanks for any insights you may have. ( I find that Lady is "either you or the querent" unhelpful as I am making the query, but she is the main character)

[Mister]

This is one for @timtoldrum, isn't it?

However, it'd be boring to just wait if he picks it up or not.

 

5 hours ago, Celine said:

But I think she is the main actor of that reading, and therefore since Lady fell, it is her.

You did the read already and it made sense.

You asked about Her, after all, not what the consequences would be for You.

 

For the reason that the cards do indeed conform to their user ('s ideas) to a degree my suggestion is to look at what's around both cards in search of descriptive qualities, chances are there is something to distinguish you both.

[joy]

7 hours ago, Celine said:

Hello,

 

I cannot untangle this for myself.

I did a 3x3 asking what my (female) boss had taken away from our discussion. The cards are astonishingly precise...except I keep being confused by the following: the Lady fell, but also the Bear. And suddenly I simply can't decide, can Lady still be me? I keep thinking no, because I am asking about what she does with our discussion, and so I read her as Lady - on the other hand as it was a discussion with me (and pretty heated too), it may seem natural I would be part of the picture.

 

But I think she is the main actor of that reading, and therefore since Lady fell, it is her. Yes, I'm going circles, and my Lenormand book is packed in a box to be moved soon.

 

Thanks for any insights you may have. ( I find that Lady is "either you or the querent" unhelpful as I am making the query, but she is the main character)

 

In this reading you are the querent and therefore the Lady represents you. If you want more details, we would have to see the whole reading and then it is better to discuss it in Personal readings. 

[geoxena]

9 hours ago, Celine said:

I keep being confused by the following: the Lady fell, but also the Bear . . . and therefore since Lady fell, it is her.

 

What exactly do you mean when you say the Lady "fell?"  Do you mean that, in addition to the cards you pulled, the Lady and Bear cards fell out of the deck while you were shuffling?    Or are you saying that the cards you pulled "fell?"  

 

If it's just that they fell out of the deck while shuffling and you already had pulled the cards for the reading, then I would've just put the ones that fell back into the deck and read only the ones you pulled.  I see no reason to include cards that fall out as part of any reading.  It just means it wasn't a great job of shuffling.

 

But if that's not what you meant by saying they fell, can you please explain with more detail?

[Celine]

6 hours ago, joy said:

In this reading you are the querent and therefore the Lady represents you. If you want more details, we would have to see the whole reading and then it is better to discuss it in Personal readings

Thank you @joy 

 

So unless the question is asked by someone else, we are always the querent and therefore Lady/Lord represents us. It bothers me... 

I truly thought I was asking a technical question, that's why I didn't put it in the personal readings.

 

4 hours ago, geoxena said:

But if that's not what you meant by saying they fell, can you please explain with more detail?

Apologies @geoxena. I drew nine cards, two of which were the Lady and the Bear. And indeed the reading is very different if the Lady represents me (and it also tends to move away from the question) or her (which places her at the centre as the one who is doing something with the discussion or not)

 

@Mister I think along the same lines. If I drew cards about a woman I didn't know for practice purposes, and the Lady was part of the draw, there's no question in my mind that the Lady would represent that woman. And here indeed my question was genuinely "what will she do with all that" not "crap, what is she considering doing about me".

 

I need to work more and take note of such questions. Thank you!

Edited 2 hours ago by Celine
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