Tarot cards & combos that indicate apathy, disgust or pity and fear as feelings

[greekmystic29]

Does anyone here has some light to shed on regarding some individual cards and card combos that not only indicate the asker's romantic interest doesn't have any feelings for them but they possibly feel sorry, disgusted or even petrified of them--like they feel you/the questioner is a weird, stalker sort of type to the point that they are almost about to call the cops or do other sorts of protective measures against you??or they desperately want to see you or the asker be happy and move on with somebody else?

 

For my little personal experience reading myself and others, the following cards indicate no romantic feelings:

 

-Death (80% of the time I've pulled this card as feelings it meant they were dead/nada).

 

-4 cups (the ultimate rejection card for me, the other person just rejects the offering that you give to them).

 

-Fool (not as strong as death or 4 cups but indicates often a young and immature person who doesn't have any serious feelings and plans for you). I have gotten this repeatedly for a young borderline ex who was a proven player...

 

I also do not perceive any of the kinds and especially King of swords as being warm and affectionate towards another person.

 

My concern though as discussed in the opening line is which cards/combos go beyond apathy/lack of romantic feelings and indicate that the other person feels plain sorry you or thinks you are a weirdo that they need to get rid of?

 

[PageOfCups]

Page of Swords is a stalker-ish energy, especially in the reverse (in the upright, he’s more of a studious “research assistant” type).

 

This can be the type of person who actively “hate-follows” (IDK why people even bother doing that, personally I’m more of a blocker as I get peeved easily—LOL).

[Honney]

Hello greek,

 

great thread!! :)...I have this questions on my mind too :)

 

A stalker is a page of swords for me,especially when it is reversed, but the other swords court cards (Rx) indicate stalking too. I would add there devil card as well, maybe with some communication card combination (it is a person who googles you, check your profiles everywhere,etc. - not necesarily "personal" stalker, but internet one).

 

Honney :)

 

 

[greekmystic29]

Thank you all for your answers. The problem is, it's hard to figure out when these cards indicate that your or the asker's POI (Person of Interest) thinks that the asker is a weirdo/annoyance or the cards reflect actually the stalkerish behavior and spying feelings of the POI towards the person that asked the cards.

 

I've had the good ol' Devil paired with magician reversed when a woman asked me about the feelings of her target (ex-boyfriend) and I was hesitant to tell her that perhaps her POI thought she was obsessive and manipulative as this may be him who actually feels and acts that way towards her.  Do you pull off clarification cards in this case or resort in other tools for confirmation e.g pendulum on who feels what?

 

Also, are there any cards that imply that the target/ POI actually feels sorry for the asker and wants them to move on? This has been the trickiest query for me so far...The first card that comes to mind is the 5 pentacles (poverty, misery, charity) however there might be other cards and combos that indicate that. Not sure...

[Ratty]

Also, are there any cards that imply that the target/ POI actually feels sorry for the asker and wants them to move on? This has been the trickiest query for me so far...The first card that comes to mind is the 5 pentacles (poverty, misery, charity) however there might be other cards and combos that indicate that. Not sure...

 

It's going to depend on the question and the deck. But 2oC reversed, 8oC, Wheel, Tower, Lovers reversed, all come to mind.

 

Then there are positional dignities. If your spread puts 2oC in the past, 6oC reversed in the present and WoF in the future, I'd call that a clue.

 

To be honest if after months of no contact a querent still wants to know what their ex thinks of them (present tense), it's a safe bet they are a bit stuck.

[skywatching]

 

Also, are there any cards that imply that the target/ POI actually feels sorry for the asker and wants them to move on?

 

I remember once pulling the 3 of swords when I felt sorry for someone. Maybe the 5 of Cups, but that's more feeling sorry for yourself.

 

So perhaps a combination of 3 of swords and 8 of Cups, or 6 of Swords. If you want someone to move on then you would need to see those kind of movement cards especially the 8 of Cups.

 

For pity I would say the 6 of pentacles.