Guest swedishfish Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Thank you all guys. Gathering the info I'm gonna interpret the HP like this - someone who's private who secretly holds a lot of info. Saves herself for selected men. Its interesting cos when I asked what this man wants from me I got the empress. No doubt he wants to have an affair with me but that's not what he's gonna get from me/high priestess. you seem to have a poor impression of The Empress and have interpreted her to mean something she doesn't. you are attributing the traits and characteristics of the magician reversed or the devil to her. if a man wants the high priestess from you, you better get ready for zero intimacy beyond intellectual stimulation and spirituality. The Empress is a warm, loving, welcoming, fertile, creationist energy and card. i'm not sure why you are so against sex, which is a natural part of humanity, but you're applying that inappropriately to this card. the high priestess is wise, reserved, challenging - she is like a psychotherapist who pushes you to look at yourself for the answers to your problems. she is above sex in that she doesn't have it, with anyone. she is an oracle. a madonna. the alpha and the omega. arguably, you can not have the priestess without the empress. and personally, i think you should be lucky this man wants the empress with you. perhaps he wants you to have children with him.
Raggydoll Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Thank you all guys. Gathering the info I'm gonna interpret the HP like this - someone who's private who secretly holds a lot of info. Saves herself for selected men. Its interesting cos when I asked what this man wants from me I got the empress. No doubt he wants to have an affair with me but that's not what he's gonna get from me/high priestess. I’m glad you got something out of this. I must admit that I, like swedishfish, struggle a bit to see your associations for the Empress. She is the warm, caring and generous person who really appreciates all the little luxuries in life. Someone that you might want to hang out with cause she makes you feel good and less stressed out. Someone that encourages you to take care of yourself and not be to hard on yourself. That is my view of her anyway
Star83 Posted October 11, 2018 Author Posted October 11, 2018 Thank you all guys. Gathering the info I'm gonna interpret the HP like this - someone who's private who secretly holds a lot of info. Saves herself for selected men. Its interesting cos when I asked what this man wants from me I got the empress. No doubt he wants to have an affair with me but that's not what he's gonna get from me/high priestess. you seem to have a poor impression of The Empress and have interpreted her to mean something she doesn't. you are attributing the traits and characteristics of the magician reversed or the devil to her. if a man wants the high priestess from you, you better get ready for zero intimacy beyond intellectual stimulation and spirituality. The Empress is a warm, loving, welcoming, fertile, creationist energy and card. i'm not sure why you are so against sex, which is a natural part of humanity, but you're applying that inappropriately to this card. the high priestess is wise, reserved, challenging - she is like a psychotherapist who pushes you to look at yourself for the answers to your problems. she is above sex in that she doesn't have it, with anyone. she is an oracle. a madonna. the alpha and the omicron. arguably, you can not have the priestess without the empress. and personally, i think you should be lucky this man wants the empress with you. perhaps he wants you to have children with him. Gosh you have me so wrong. Re sex, I love sex, got no problem with it. I have sex with my HB. This other man on the other hand has lots of affairs with women and I ain't gonna be another one of his chicks he f**ks and then tosses to the side as a servant whilst he goes back to his 'prize.' The very same prize who is also having lots of affairs with other men. Its what's agreed upon in their relationship, which is fine for them but my HB and I are commuted. Yes we had a break a few months ago but now we rekindled. This other man wanted to have an affair with me and the girl wanted to have an affair with my HB. As for the empress, I've experienced this card as the month card of august and I must say that whilst I was full of deep love for certain men and I felt very sexual, I did see it as a woman who has money, prestige, and someone men want to have affairs with and be loved. So I'm not saying it means just affairs, but I do get it in readings when that's what they want. I'm having committed good sex with my HB, and I don't need these two users who use many ppl to meddle into my life carelessly.
Guest swedishfish Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Thank you all guys. Gathering the info I'm gonna interpret the HP like this - someone who's private who secretly holds a lot of info. Saves herself for selected men. Its interesting cos when I asked what this man wants from me I got the empress. No doubt he wants to have an affair with me but that's not what he's gonna get from me/high priestess. you seem to have a poor impression of The Empress and have interpreted her to mean something she doesn't. you are attributing the traits and characteristics of the magician reversed or the devil to her. if a man wants the high priestess from you, you better get ready for zero intimacy beyond intellectual stimulation and spirituality. The Empress is a warm, loving, welcoming, fertile, creationist energy and card. i'm not sure why you are so against sex, which is a natural part of humanity, but you're applying that inappropriately to this card. the high priestess is wise, reserved, challenging - she is like a psychotherapist who pushes you to look at yourself for the answers to your problems. she is above sex in that she doesn't have it, with anyone. she is an oracle. a madonna. the alpha and the omicron. arguably, you can not have the priestess without the empress. and personally, i think you should be lucky this man wants the empress with you. perhaps he wants you to have children with him. Gosh you have me so wrong. Re sex, I love sex, got no problem with it. I have sex with my HB. This other man on the other hand has lots of affairs with women and I ain't gonna be another one of his chicks he f**ks and then tosses to the side as a servant whilst he goes back to his 'prize.' The very same prize who is also having lots of affairs with other men. Its what's agreed upon in their relationship, which is fine for them but my HB and I are commuted. Yes we had a break a few months ago but now we rekindled. This other man wanted to have an affair with me and the girl wanted to have an affair with my HB. As for the empress, I've experienced this card as the month card of august and I must say that whilst I was full of deep love for certain men and I felt very sexual, I did see it as a woman who has money, prestige, and someone men want to have affairs with and be loved. So I'm not saying it means just affairs, but I do get it in readings when that's what they want. I'm having committed good sex with my HB, and I don't need these two users who use many ppl to meddle into my life carelessly. And as for tarot word game, calling me the devil is highly inappropriate. that would mean they want someone who cares for them and their needs which don't seem to be being met elsewhere, not that they want someone selfish. sex without strings is the devil. temptation is the devil. selfishness is the devil. focus on oneself over selflessness is the devil. wanting an independent woman who doesn't need anything in return is nine of pentacles. i think your study of the cards is good. keep it up. lots to learn. you might enjoy working as a mentee with a TTM mentor. Saturn Celeste[/member] Raggydoll[/member]
Guest swedishfish Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 as well, this site is quality with regard to an extensive study of the cards. there is a long description of The Empress, and what she represents. there is also an abridged version which is here: https://teachmetarot.com/relationships-love/the-empress-relationships-love-sex-interpretations/archetypal-empress-in-love-short-version/ When the Empress appears as a representation of the physical side of a relationship or romance, we typically are not looking at a fling or affair. It is a good indication it will last; You, or the person you are pursuing wants much more than a one-night stand with you. They may not be interested in hopping into bed on the first, second, third or fourth date. If they see real partner potential in you, they will want to get to know you first and let the relationship naturally incubate. Sex will happen when the time is right, and when it does, it will have been worth the wait. The Empress is associated with great sex. The Empress is traditionally associated with procreation so in a sex reading we could be looking at ‘let’s make a baby sex’ rather than normal sex. The focus shifts from the physical pleasure of sex to a desired result post-sex; Conception is sought, and this may find you quite sexually active until you succeed. An attraction for older women can be found when The Empress appears. there is also a page for the High Priestess in love. https://teachmetarot.com/relationships-love/the-high-priestess-relationships-love-sex-associations/ The Fantasy Woman The High Priestess can be the woman of most men’s dreams, the fantasy partner – goddess in the kitchen and whore in the bedroom. She could be the image they conjure up when having sex or masturbating. However it tends to be The Empress they wake up with or go home to. The Empress is also who they cuddle into and seek comfort from. The High Priestess is not the cuddly type. The High Priestess’s very ethereal and intangible nature lends itself well to being but a figment of most imaginations. There is something not quite real about her. She lacks the flesh and bones of The Empress. She is often judged remotely by others who may or may not have had any interaction with her. This is because she is different from most and that always sparks criticism and controversy. Everyone will have an opinion on her. They don’t know her, but assume they know her and what she is about. She stands out from the crowd even though she does not seek the spotlight. you're receiving a LOT of excellent information in this thread about a card for which you've asked for help to understand. i do hope you take it all in and that it helps to inform your readings in the future.
Star83 Posted October 11, 2018 Author Posted October 11, 2018 Looks like he keeps shooting himself in the foot then. He may want love from me, but he and his girl are so superficial they put their public image and status as top priority, rubbing it in everyone's faces on a daily basis and laughing about it. He's chosen the 6 of wands life. He may want love deep inside his life but his fame and glory is more important. Someone told me he's trying to deepen his connection with his partner but she's not interested in deepening. She's too busy trying to seduce ppl for a living. She comes up as the tower in my readings and supposedly he likes her tower qualities, but he doesn't have love.
Raggydoll Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 I agree that lots of great information has been shared, so now I suggest that we all take a step back to let it sink in and let things cool off a bit. Any personal disagreements and complaints should be kept off this thread (but as always, we moderators are happy to help out if there has been a misunderstanding somewhere, just contact us via the help desk or by PM). Everyone, please be mindful of your tone and the words you use, especially if you direct them to a specific person. We are all friends here <3
Star83 Posted October 11, 2018 Author Posted October 11, 2018 as well, this site is quality with regard to an extensive study of the cards. there is a long description of The Empress, and what she represents. there is also an abridged version which is here: https://teachmetarot.com/relationships-love/the-empress-relationships-love-sex-interpretations/archetypal-empress-in-love-short-version/ When the Empress appears as a representation of the physical side of a relationship or romance, we typically are not looking at a fling or affair. It is a good indication it will last; You, or the person you are pursuing wants much more than a one-night stand with you. They may not be interested in hopping into bed on the first, second, third or fourth date. If they see real partner potential in you, they will want to get to know you first and let the relationship naturally incubate. Sex will happen when the time is right, and when it does, it will have been worth the wait. The Empress is associated with great sex. The Empress is traditionally associated with procreation so in a sex reading we could be looking at ‘let’s make a baby sex’ rather than normal sex. The focus shifts from the physical pleasure of sex to a desired result post-sex; Conception is sought, and this may find you quite sexually active until you succeed. An attraction for older women can be found when The Empress appears. there is also a page for the High Priestess in love. https://teachmetarot.com/relationships-love/the-high-priestess-relationships-love-sex-associations/ The Fantasy Woman The High Priestess can be the woman of most men’s dreams, the fantasy partner – goddess in the kitchen and whore in the bedroom. She could be the image they conjure up when having sex or masturbating. However it tends to be The Empress they wake up with or go home to. The Empress is also who they cuddle into and seek comfort from. The High Priestess is not the cuddly type. The High Priestess’s very ethereal and intangible nature lends itself well to being but a figment of most imaginations. There is something not quite real about her. She lacks the flesh and bones of The Empress. She is often judged remotely by others who may or may not have had any interaction with her. This is because she is different from most and that always sparks criticism and controversy. Everyone will have an opinion on her. They don’t know her, but assume they know her and what she is about. She stands out from the crowd even though she does not seek the spotlight. you're receiving a LOT of excellent information in this thread about a card for which you've asked for help to understand. i do hope you take it all in and that it helps to inform your readings in the future. Thank you. So sounds like he was looking for long term love and babies with me. I am a mum so I guess it appeals to him. It actually appeals to a lot of men I'm meeting these days. Lots of them want flings with me too. Oh wait but if they like the empress in me I guess it means they want my love too. With this guy I can see he's attracted. I just didn't know he wanted that much. But yeah, like I said earlier, he's shooting himself in the foot because he turned me down for the woman who would get him places.
Guest swedishfish Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 as well, this site is quality with regard to an extensive study of the cards. there is a long description of The Empress, and what she represents. there is also an abridged version which is here: https://teachmetarot.com/relationships-love/the-empress-relationships-love-sex-interpretations/archetypal-empress-in-love-short-version/ When the Empress appears as a representation of the physical side of a relationship or romance, we typically are not looking at a fling or affair. It is a good indication it will last; You, or the person you are pursuing wants much more than a one-night stand with you. They may not be interested in hopping into bed on the first, second, third or fourth date. If they see real partner potential in you, they will want to get to know you first and let the relationship naturally incubate. Sex will happen when the time is right, and when it does, it will have been worth the wait. The Empress is associated with great sex. The Empress is traditionally associated with procreation so in a sex reading we could be looking at ‘let’s make a baby sex’ rather than normal sex. The focus shifts from the physical pleasure of sex to a desired result post-sex; Conception is sought, and this may find you quite sexually active until you succeed. An attraction for older women can be found when The Empress appears. there is also a page for the High Priestess in love. https://teachmetarot.com/relationships-love/the-high-priestess-relationships-love-sex-associations/ The Fantasy Woman The High Priestess can be the woman of most men’s dreams, the fantasy partner – goddess in the kitchen and whore in the bedroom. She could be the image they conjure up when having sex or masturbating. However it tends to be The Empress they wake up with or go home to. The Empress is also who they cuddle into and seek comfort from. The High Priestess is not the cuddly type. The High Priestess’s very ethereal and intangible nature lends itself well to being but a figment of most imaginations. There is something not quite real about her. She lacks the flesh and bones of The Empress. She is often judged remotely by others who may or may not have had any interaction with her. This is because she is different from most and that always sparks criticism and controversy. Everyone will have an opinion on her. They don’t know her, but assume they know her and what she is about. She stands out from the crowd even though she does not seek the spotlight. you're receiving a LOT of excellent information in this thread about a card for which you've asked for help to understand. i do hope you take it all in and that it helps to inform your readings in the future. Thank you. So sounds like he was looking for long term love and babies with me. I am a mum so I guess it appeals to him. It actually appeals to a lot of men I'm meeting these days. Lots of them want flings with me too. Oh wait but if they like the empress in me I guess it means they want my love too. With this guy I can see he's attracted. I just didn't know he wanted that much. But yeah, like I said earlier, he's shooting himself in the foot because he turned me down for the woman who would get him places. sure. i think men, i guess not all men maybe but most men, like to be nurtured. it makes sense that seeing how you take care of your kids and family is attractive, and that the empress would appear in your reading to communicate this. especially if this man is missing this in his own relationship. and it seems like that's really possible since your cards also showed you that the wealth is like a trap. the focus is on keeping up with the joneses and not on the love one looks to receive in a relationship. the empress tends to represent the ultimate woman, the one to take home to mom and marry. she can also represent a great attraction, but there's typically more to that attraction than just the carnal aspect. she shows up when a man thinks you can meet his needs emotionally, with warmth, and intimately, with warmth and care. you are definitely in charge of your boundaries, so if you are no longer into him due to his decision, that's that. sometimes guys wander and that wandering turns out as a blessing in disguise in that they may realize they don't want what captured their interest after all. they may realize they made a mistake. and that serves to get that urge to wander out of the way before they may express their true desires or emotions to the person they initially overlooked. it just depends on how forgiving you decide to be - all up to you. perhaps that's what the HP means for you in this situation. that you hold the key to how forgiving you decide to be and that you will decide what to do via further introspection about the situation. or maybe she is suggesting to think on it a bit more.
Raggydoll Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 This thread is being locked as it has gotten out of hand. I have removed any mentions of personal disputes. Please do not continue this argument in other threads or via PMs. If there is a misunderstanding, we moderators will gladly try to assist in any way we can to help solve things. Please try to give other members the benefit of doubt. We are all a part of the TT&M family here, and every single person is treasured <3
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