Imageii Posted November 10, 2018 Posted November 10, 2018 A few years ago I asked my tarot deck if I would have children, and the results really upset me. I did the reading several times hoping for a new result but it was always the same outcome. Unfortunately I can’t remember the exact cards, but I do remember the chariot and the ace of wands. The final card always pointed to sadness or sorrow and loss, I just can’t remember now what the card was. This has always filled me with anxiety and dread for the future. If I ever do get pregnant, I will spend the pregnancy terrified of losing the child and that really upsets me. Every reading I’ve ever done has been pretty accurate and spot on. So I am now too afraid to ever do that reading again. I guess I wondered if readings can change over time, or be inaccurate? I guess I just want a little reassurance as it’s something that’s always upset me!
DanielJUK Posted November 10, 2018 Posted November 10, 2018 Welcome to the forum Imageii[/member] :thumbsup: I'm sorry this reading haunted you for many years. Readings change a lot, most readers say they change every 6 to 12 months. After a year, it could be very different. When you asked the reading at the time, it told you the future at that time but there could be so many reasons why! Like for example, you are busy with your career or university and have no time to go on dates and meet people! Perhaps in that moment you didn't want children but in future this could change. I think future predictions are like the movie Sliding Doors, if you went on a different journey, everything would change! So first of all readings are not set in stone! Second, one thing I have learnt is to becareful what you read on. Do you really want to know? Often we read (especially for future readings) to get a positive message but what happens if you get a message that is hard to deal with? Sometimes we might not want to know or not at that moment. Thirdly, future readings are much less accurate than reading for yourself right now, it's like a weather forecast! Imagine if today you got the weather forecast for this day in 10 years time, well unless you live somewhere with very little weather variation it's likely to be inaccurate. The further we read ahead, the more change of it changing. We change as people all the time! Forthly what question you ask is so important, if you ask something like "will I ever have children?" tarot gives not so great outcomes if it ends with yes or no, it doesn't like forced into a binary, it's better to ask questions which offer a wide outcome! Finally if I read for someone else or myself and get a negative reading come up for the future, I see it as a warning. What can you do to change that outcome? There is advice there! For example I don't know all your cards but that could say to me that with chariot and ace of wands and then a sad card, you want to push through and make it happen, like putting pressure on yourself. What can you take from this message to change? Maybe chill and when it happens it happens, something like that? It was trying to give you advice not nightmares :) Please don't let this haunt you, your life has probably already changed! Worry if you want to go down that path when real medical things to obstacles come up but until then try not to worry, you just don't know and pregnancy is always worrying. Why not do a reading for yourself about your life now like "what can I do at the moment to have the best chance of conceiving in future?" It might put you on the right path for your future wishes :) <3
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