AJ-ish/Sharyn Posted December 10, 2019 Posted December 10, 2019 I'll probably have time next weekend. I'm off Thursday, I'll do it then. Can't believe the month is over already, I'm sorry, I'll get right on it. I've had a house fire/leg amputated/death in the neighborhood I've had a sliver. I've had a flat tire. I'm waiting for the new moon I'm waiting for the full moon. The moon has fallen so I got sidetracked. I'm waiting for Pluto to be in axis with the sun before I can start. My king of staves has peanut butter on it. All said with a smile but...wouldn't we be much better readers if we just sat down and got it done? If you've had time to check facebook, watch a unboxing, play a game, you've had time to do a reading. If there is a question there is an immediacy that needs to be addressed. If we were at Work as a reader excuses wouldn't be an option, we would Just Read. I've been thinking about why I don't participate in reading circles and threads here, when it is something I'd really like to do. This is why. Asleep in a different time zone is acceptable 😉 Wouldn't just doing it make us better readers? Yes we have a life. But why put off for days or weeks just doing the reading?
Aoife Posted December 10, 2019 Posted December 10, 2019 In my case - FEAR - What if I get it wrong.... what if I inadvertently say something upsetting... what if I say something that triggers an action that's later regretted... what if I fail to see something that could make a significant difference? What if... what if...
AJ-ish/Sharyn Posted December 10, 2019 Author Posted December 10, 2019 putting out a reading for me is all about fear 🙂 most of my actions are based on the tiny over sensitive mini-me inside. Which is the main reason I take life head on, fast. Not for everyone, I totally get it, but all this farting around getting around to getting around to it... just gets on my last nerve. And yes I'm on the prod today, and I'm trying to avoid my usual just leaving the forum for a few months, because it's always about mey shortcomings, not someone else's actions. And we are just having a conversation here, not confrontations, the rich and main purpose of a forum. But why all the farting around, she says again. If you make the commitment to do it...why not do it?
Aoife Posted December 10, 2019 Posted December 10, 2019 But... but... but... without prevarication my kitchen floor would never get cleaned😉 I suspect I've blundered into a situation here? Am I missing something - is this a thread about people failing to honour exchange readings?
Saturn Celeste Posted December 10, 2019 Posted December 10, 2019 2 hours ago, AJ-ish/Sharyn said: If we were at Work as a reader excuses wouldn't be an option, we would Just Read. You are correct but I still take a day. Unless they choose a 2 card reading which is done ASAP, I take a day to turn it in. So you order today, if it's a 3 card reading they get it the next day. But larger readings I have to allow a few more days to finish it. But I get my orders done on time, that's really important to me! Fear is really a motivator for sure. People commit then think about it and get more fearful. As a community we can continue to reassure that it will be OK that we all understand here because we've all been at that point. The other motivator is passion. Just how badly do you want to be a reader? How badly do you want to read for others? Some people have varying degrees of passion, perhaps they feel compelled by the 'community spirit' to join in and then realize they are too fearful to have the passion to get it done. 17 minutes ago, AJ-ish/Sharyn said: And we are just having a conversation here, not confrontations, the rich and main purpose of a forum. Excellent thread, AJ-ish! Thank you! In all honesty, this is where astrology comes into the picture for me also. I have found some signs are more prone to jump in and get things done than others. Now this is my opinion, not fact but I have dealt with a lot of people through the years and have had a chance to study them and their astrological signs.
Lady Butterfly Posted December 10, 2019 Posted December 10, 2019 In a way, I agree with you @AJ-ish/Sharyn. This is the main reason I have closed my exchange thread for now, and why I am not doing any circles right now... my daily commitments don't leave me much time to do readings at the moment, and I don't feel comfortable making people who ask for one wait until I have a moment.
AJ-ish/Sharyn Posted December 10, 2019 Author Posted December 10, 2019 22 minutes ago, Aoife said: But... but... but... without prevarication my kitchen floor would never get cleaned😉 I suspect I've blundered into a situation here? Am I missing something - is this a thread about people failing to honour exchange readings? oh that kitchen floor... I've cleaned the barn because I so hate to talk on the phone I'll do anything to not do it 🙂 this is just a conversation on a forum, absolutely positively not about missed or late readings...No, no and no! No one in mind, just trying to work out my own failings. (((Aoife))) no ulterior hidden motives here!
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