Sex Questions - Yes I Went There

[Blasianpersuasion]

I mean if you feel too shy or too young feel free to not be in this convo lol! I mean we don’t have to be too detailed here just legitimate question as I truly want to understand my cards for questions like these. You ever ask your cards sex related questions? 
what cards represent what for you? I had asked my cards, as a newly single individual, if I’d have an active November but honestly I don’t even know where to start with interpreting in this context other than the obvious like devil(intense sexual attraction or sex life), two of cups (lustful, passionate), and lovers (lovemaking, passionate) but that’s about it. Thoughts?

Edited November 6, 2019 by Blasianpersuasion

[Raggydoll]

This previous discussion might be of interest to you 😀:

 

 

I also know that there are some peeps on YouTube that talk about this. Let’s see if I can find a link for you:

 

 

She reads from the book that is discussed in that thread.

 

Also, @Saturn Celeste does sexy readings and I’m sure she has some tips for you! 

 

I have found that the Tower can represent really hot (explosive!) sex and the ace of wands can represent desire/drive. But there can of course be sexual layers to almost any cards, given that the topic and the circumstances imply it. 

[Blasianpersuasion]

22 hours ago, Raggydoll said:

This previous discussion might be of interest to you 😀:

 

 

I also know that there are some peeps on YouTube that talk about this. Let’s see if I can find a link for you:

 

 

She reads from the book that is discussed in that thread.

 

Also, @Saturn Celeste does sexy readings and I’m sure she has some tips for you! 

 

I have found that the Tower can represent really hot (explosive!) sex and the ace of wands can represent desire/drive. But there can of course be sexual layers to almost any cards, given that the topic and the circumstances imply it. 

That makes sense!! Thank you so much I am definitely going to check all of these out!! Haha I’m actually pretty excited to delve deeper into this topic haha. Thank you again .

[iofthebeholder]

Eros Garden of Love Tarot by Uusi definitely the deck for such questions, highly sexual but in a playful, tasteful way. It's a Marseilles style deck, definitely recommend it for sexual or romantic questions, the art and production qualities truly top notch. Only Catland shop in Brooklyn had several copies in stock when I bought one about two months ago.

Edited November 14, 2019 by iofthebeholder

[Catspur]

It's really hard to answer questions like this in abstract. 

What cards did you draw? 

 

The vast majority of the cards can be applied to a sexual situation in some way. 

[Saturn Celeste]

On 11/6/2019 at 11:40 PM, Blasianpersuasion said:

Haha I’m actually pretty excited to delve deeper into this topic haha.

These are the erotic decks I use for my erotic readings.

Erotic Decks
Casanova
Cosmic Tribe
DeCameron
Femmes Erotiques
Kamasutra
Manara

Renaissance Tarot
Sexual Magic
Slutist
Tarot Erotica
Eros Oracle
Pillow Talk Oracle

I also use a few diverse decks but they are not erotic.  For those decks I have special personalized erotic positions () and I write up special questions for the cards.

 

[Blasianpersuasion]

On 11/13/2019 at 10:56 PM, iofthebeholder said:

Eros Garden of Love Tarot by Uusi definitely the deck for such questions, highly sexual but in a playful, tasteful way. It's a Marseilles style deck, definitely recommend it for sexual or romantic questions, the art and production qualities truly top notch. Only Catland shop in Brooklyn had several copies in stock when I bought one about two months ago.

Thank you I don’t know why I didn’t think of just getting a deck that actually is specifically for sex questions haha

[Blasianpersuasion]

1 hour ago, Catspur said:

It's really hard to answer questions like this in abstract. 

What cards did you draw? 

 

The vast majority of the cards can be applied to a sexual situation in some way. 

Very true! My question was just what different meanings can the cards have! I can’t remember what I pulled per say though 😫

[Blasianpersuasion]

1 hour ago, Saturn Celeste said:

These are the erotic decks I use for my erotic readings.

Erotic Decks
Casanova
Cosmic Tribe
DeCameron
Femmes Erotiques
Kamasutra
Manara

Renaissance Tarot
Sexual Magic
Slutist
Tarot Erotica
Eros Oracle
Pillow Talk Oracle

I also use a few diverse decks but they are not erotic.  For those decks I have special personalized erotic positions () and I write up special questions for the cards.

 

Oh my gosh you’re so amazing!! I am definitely getting one or two or three hahaha thank you!!

[Grizabella]

I haven't had seques in so long I've forgotten how to spell it. But I have the Casanova deck---got that one recently and I had wanted it for years. At one time I had the Sexual Magic but it was lost. 

 

I'll be 74 years old on Tuesday and it's been my experience that people must think my kids walk on water. When I was in the hospital last December I was talking to a nurse about my ex-husband's new partner having said that she's happier than she's ever been with my ex. I commented to a nurse that I think she must have had a pretty sad love life if that's the case. My ex's idea of foreplay was "take your clothes off." When I said that, the nurse almost passed out. 😂 Younger people just don't think the elderly (a) know anything but the missionary position and (b) would be candid in talking about it.  Good grief, my generation was the "free love generation" and "if it feels good, do it" was the rallying cry. Who do they think invented a lot of this stuff?

 

So I guess that's why I don't get many sexual reading requests. (Not many? Well, none, to be precise.)  Sex is like a peanut butter sandwich----but just because a guy makes a dynamite peanut butter sandwich, that doesn't mean he's a world class chef, if you know what I mean.  Reading on the other 99% of a relationship is much more rewarding and productive---and in the end----much more effective in enhancing one's sexual intimacy than just the sex act. One of the greatest misconceptions in the world is that sex has a huge part in the relationship between romantic partners. Sure---sex is exciting and wonderful and can be a beautiful physical expression of the love and intimacy between two people, but it's NOT love. In fact, it hasn't very much to do with love, intimacy and lasting partnership. People use sex as a lure or a power trip or a bargaining tool. It's about 20 minutes out of an hour. It can be a wonderful part of intimacy with the right person, but the right person doesn't just live between the sheets.

 

I'm sure there are lots of us who are aware of the "vagina dentata"----the vagina with teeth. The predatory woman who uses sex as a lure and then consumes and devours the man emotionally, mentally and spiritually.?  Well, I wish those women would straighten out their thinking. There's a lot to be said for "gumming it" with your vagina. Just get the teeth out of it, quit valuing it so highly in your romantic repertoire and using it for the wrong purposes and get on with it. If you learn to do that, then you're going to find that your sexuality is taken right out of this world and into the heavenly realm and you won't rely so much on seeing the Devil and the Tower pop up (if you forgive the expression) in your cards.

 

So with that being said, on with the discussion of sexual Tarot spreads and decks to read them with. It's a fun topic and fun to discuss. I'm not trying to rain on anyone's parade here. I just needed to make a point.  I'll be following along and might even join in now and then.  

 

By the way, none of my kids and grandkids walk on water. Most of them can't even swim to my knowledge.  

[Raggydoll]

24 minutes ago, Grizabella said:

I haven't had seques in so long I've forgotten how to spell it. But I have the Casanova deck---got that one recently and I had wanted it for years. At one time I had the Sexual Magic but it was lost. 

 

I'll be 74 years old on Tuesday and it's been my experience that people must think my kids walk on water. When I was in the hospital last December I was talking to a nurse about my ex-husband's new partner having said that she's happier than she's ever been with my ex. I commented to a nurse that I think she must have had a pretty sad love life if that's the case. My ex's idea of foreplay was "take your clothes off." When I said that, the nurse almost passed out. 😂 Younger people just don't think the elderly (a) know anything but the missionary position and (b) would be candid in talking about it.  Good grief, my generation was the "free love generation" and "if it feels good, do it" was the rallying cry. Who do they think invented a lot of this stuff?

 

So I guess that's why I don't get many sexual reading requests. (Not many? Well, none, to be precise.)  Sex is like a peanut butter sandwich----but just because a guy makes a dynamite peanut butter sandwich, that doesn't mean he's a world class chef, if you know what I mean.  Reading on the other 99% of a relationship is much more rewarding and productive---and in the end----much more effective in enhancing one's sexual intimacy than just the sex act. One of the greatest misconceptions in the world is that sex has a huge part in the relationship between romantic partners. Sure---sex is exciting and wonderful and can be a beautiful physical expression of the love and intimacy between two people, but it's NOT love. In fact, it hasn't very much to do with love, intimacy and lasting partnership. People use sex as a lure or a power trip or a bargaining tool. It's about 20 minutes out of an hour. It can be a wonderful part of intimacy with the right person, but the right person doesn't just live between the sheets.

 

I'm sure there are lots of us who are aware of the "vagina dentata"----the vagina with teeth. The predatory woman who uses sex as a lure and then consumes and devours the man emotionally, mentally and spiritually.?  Well, I wish those women would straighten out their thinking. There's a lot to be said for "gumming it" with your vagina. Just get the teeth out of it, quit valuing it so highly in your romantic repertoire and using it for the wrong purposes and get on with it. If you learn to do that, then you're going to find that your sexuality is taken right out of this world and into the heavenly realm and you won't rely so much on seeing the Devil and the Tower pop up (if you forgive the expression) in your cards.

 

So with that being said, on with the discussion of sexual Tarot spreads and decks to read them with. It's a fun topic and fun to discuss. I'm not trying to rain on anyone's parade here. I just needed to make a point.  I'll be following along and might even join in now and then.  

 

By the way, none of my kids and grandkids walk on water. Most of them can't even swim to my knowledge.  

🤣🤣🤣🤣 

 

But honestly, do anyone get requests for sex readings if they haven’t advertised it in some way? I believe a lot of people don’t even consider that there is such a thing as an erotic tarot reading. 

 

 

[gregory]

There's the Giardino del Priapo - VERY hard to find - and also the Forbidden Dreams - which just came out. https://www.tarotmania.ch/store/products/307652

[Grizabella]

There's a book called The Tarot Bible where I once found a fun spread about sexuality. I don't have the book anymore but I did a series of exchange readings with the Victorian Romantic deck when I first got it when AT still existed. That was a fun spread but I've forgotten it. If anyone else has that book, maybe they could find the spread and post it.

Edited November 23, 2019 by Grizabella

[Grizabella]

Also, I was just on the Lo Scarabeo site and there's the Kamasutra Tarot.

Sensual Wicca?

Edited November 23, 2019 by Grizabella

[Blasianpersuasion]

21 hours ago, Grizabella said:

I haven't had seques in so long I've forgotten how to spell it. But I have the Casanova deck---got that one recently and I had wanted it for years. At one time I had the Sexual Magic but it was lost. 

 

I'll be 74 years old on Tuesday and it's been my experience that people must think my kids walk on water. When I was in the hospital last December I was talking to a nurse about my ex-husband's new partner having said that she's happier than she's ever been with my ex. I commented to a nurse that I think she must have had a pretty sad love life if that's the case. My ex's idea of foreplay was "take your clothes off." When I said that, the nurse almost passed out. 😂 Younger people just don't think the elderly (a) know anything but the missionary position and (b) would be candid in talking about it.  Good grief, my generation was the "free love generation" and "if it feels good, do it" was the rallying cry. Who do they think invented a lot of this stuff?

 

So I guess that's why I don't get many sexual reading requests. (Not many? Well, none, to be precise.)  Sex is like a peanut butter sandwich----but just because a guy makes a dynamite peanut butter sandwich, that doesn't mean he's a world class chef, if you know what I mean.  Reading on the other 99% of a relationship is much more rewarding and productive---and in the end----much more effective in enhancing one's sexual intimacy than just the sex act. One of the greatest misconceptions in the world is that sex has a huge part in the relationship between romantic partners. Sure---sex is exciting and wonderful and can be a beautiful physical expression of the love and intimacy between two people, but it's NOT love. In fact, it hasn't very much to do with love, intimacy and lasting partnership. People use sex as a lure or a power trip or a bargaining tool. It's about 20 minutes out of an hour. It can be a wonderful part of intimacy with the right person, but the right person doesn't just live between the sheets.

 

I'm sure there are lots of us who are aware of the "vagina dentata"----the vagina with teeth. The predatory woman who uses sex as a lure and then consumes and devours the man emotionally, mentally and spiritually.?  Well, I wish those women would straighten out their thinking. There's a lot to be said for "gumming it" with your vagina. Just get the teeth out of it, quit valuing it so highly in your romantic repertoire and using it for the wrong purposes and get on with it. If you learn to do that, then you're going to find that your sexuality is taken right out of this world and into the heavenly realm and you won't rely so much on seeing the Devil and the Tower pop up (if you forgive the expression) in your cards.

 

So with that being said, on with the discussion of sexual Tarot spreads and decks to read them with. It's a fun topic and fun to discuss. I'm not trying to rain on anyone's parade here. I just needed to make a point.  I'll be following along and might even join in now and then.  

 

By the way, none of my kids and grandkids walk on water. Most of them can't even swim to my knowledge.  

Oh my gosh that’s hilarious!! “Take your clothes off” I just about died when I read that. I laughed so hard in public just now hahaha. Yea no that is a RULE there must be some giving to get some receiving. Such a TURN OFF otherwise lol. I totally agree with you though! It’s not love although passionate sex could be a result of love! I’m at this weird place in my life where I’m getting over a break up and really just want some fun! But I hate one night stands, I still like that connection and authentic energy. So I find fuck buddies that I actually hang out with friends as well. I’ve kinda got in this mind set that every person I intimately connected with (and not just sex) will be a lesson of some sort. It makes me see everything as an opportunity to grow. If you ever wanna give me a sex reading I’m down I also would LOVE to start practicing sling sex readings. It’s fun! Growing up we’ve all been taught to feel ashamed of loving sex but I’m 25 and no longer ashamed of it! I love it! And I know that I just need to be safe (I get tested every year and ask for testing from my partners). 

Edited November 24, 2019 by Blasianpersuasion

[Blasianpersuasion]

20 hours ago, Raggydoll said:

🤣🤣🤣🤣 

 

But honestly, do anyone get requests for sex readings if they haven’t advertised it in some way? I believe a lot of people don’t even consider that there is such a thing as an erotic tarot reading. 

 

 

I wanna become a tarot sex guru starting today!! 🤣

[Blasianpersuasion]

20 hours ago, gregory said:

There's the Giardino del Priapo - VERY hard to find - and also the Forbidden Dreams - which just came out. https://www.tarotmania.ch/store/products/307652

This is so amazing that there are so many decks out there for sex and intimacy. I looove it!! Thank you 🙂

[Blasianpersuasion]

19 hours ago, Grizabella said:

Also, I was just on the Lo Scarabeo site and there's the Kamasutra Tarot.

Sensual Wicca?

Oooooh thanks! Checking it out!!

[gregory]

3 minutes ago, Blasianpersuasion said:

I wanna become a tarot sex guru starting today!! 🤣

It's awfully - limiting.... But that book in the other thread linked is priceless....

 

 

[Grizabella]

On 11/24/2019 at 10:35 AM, Blasianpersuasion said:

Oh my gosh that’s hilarious!! “Take your clothes off” I just about died when I read that. I laughed so hard in public just now hahaha. Yea no that is a RULE there must be some giving to get some receiving. Such a TURN OFF otherwise lol. I totally agree with you though! It’s not love although passionate sex could be a result of love! I’m at this weird place in my life where I’m getting over a break up and really just want some fun! But I hate one night stands, I still like that connection and authentic energy. So I find fuck buddies that I actually hang out with friends as well. I’ve kinda got in this mind set that every person I intimately connected with (and not just sex) will be a lesson of some sort. It makes me see everything as an opportunity to grow. If you ever wanna give me a sex reading I’m down I also would LOVE to start practicing sling sex readings. It’s fun! Growing up we’ve all been taught to feel ashamed of loving sex but I’m 25 and no longer ashamed of it! I love it! And I know that I just need to be safe (I get tested every year and ask for testing from my partners). 

The comment about "take your clothes off" wasn't what the nurse was so shocked by. It was that I'd even mention foreplay at my age. That was the point I was making. 🙂